Smaller Penis Size
Hey Gang, I can get really hard and love having sex with my sexy wife. However, I am on the short side and want to know what position will make up for that? Thanks…
The link shared by dc9 is certainly a good place to start.
In terms of “making up” for being on the short side, you may not have to at all. The average erect penis is about 33% longer than the average vagina is in depth, and most of the nerves are in the first 1/3 off the vagina anyway. If you view the pleasurable locations of the vulva as being the clitoris, the shallow spot (typically G-spot), and the deep spot (either A- or P-Spot), the penis isn’t even necessary for one of those and pretty much any penis can stimulate the shallow spot. Even erect penises 1 inch shorter than “average” can stimulate the A-Spot on most women. A lot of times, it’s more about position and angle, with even small angle changes sometimes having large impacts. Sounds like you should just practice a lot! 🙂 I guess two notable exceptions to the above are that (a) some women really like the sensation of being “full”, and (b) the minority of women that can O just from PIV do tend to enjoy larger penises because it can help them orgasm.
And you may not be as short as you think. Depending on the study, the average erect penis is 5.2 inches. If you’re like me, porn has distorted what you consider to be normal (also, I was very much a late bloomer, which caused self-esteem issues too).
This helps more with girth issues than length, but good general advice for any couple is for the wife to do Kegel exercises. It will make PIV sex more pleasurable for both. It will add to that “being full” sensation that Scott describes.
The guy can do Kegel exercises too. It will help you achieve a higher level or arousal before you ejaculate, and may add a little time to how long you go before ejaculating.
@Michiganman, The subject matter on this forum is intimate, and there have been problems with trolls in the recent past. I think the way that you phrased your post has got people’s defences up, so please try to be a little more careful.
Having said that, I’m prepared to give you the benefit of the doubt, and assume that you are asking a genuine question.
I too have a smaller than average penis, and I don’t think that there is a single position that will “make up for that”. It’s worth having a look at the Christian Friendly Sex Positions link, as it may give some helpful ideas of things to try. However, it’s important to remember that there’s more to satisfying your wife sexually than trying to poke her cervix with your penis. Many women can reach orgasm from clitoral stimulation, without requiring vaginal penetration at all, and many women also find that the most sensitive areas of the vagina are in the 2-3inches closest to the entrance.
I think you should focus more on foreplay, and on responding to your wife, rather than trying some special technique or position.
I too am slightly short of average. whether you are short, long, fat or skinny ( penis wise ), quit making love with your penis and use ( your and her ) full body. LEARN HER ANATOMY. I hope and assume you are a veteran stimulator of her glans clitoris and clitoral hood ( ah, the hood – light almost teasing strokes I love). Do you know the crus of clitoris, and the vestibular bulbs? How about the labia of the vagina?
Also, the largest sex organ on the human body is the skin. Exxplore, Explore. Many women have erogenous spots at random places. Search. Common are lobes of the ear, inside of elbows, back of knees, lower back, and buttocks (sometimes deep massage). I could go on ( toes? G-SPOT!!! ). I also doubt that she is as concerned with your size as you are. If you are a great lover, size becomes less important. Also remember to love her and be considerate in and out of bed. Technique is important, but sex without love is masturbation warmed over even if two are involved. God bless your bed Brother.