Softer toy suggestions
My wife needs a pretty strong external vibe to get to an O, but what we have is hard plastic and has been leaving her injured at times. She’s finally open to trying something different, so I’m looking for suggestions on something powerful but with softer materials (if such a thing exists). Of course, there’s the dilemma of not wanting to spend good money on something that may not meet her needs, but I know quality in this area often come with higher price tags. Suggestions?
The We-Vibe Touch. You’re welcome. 😀
More seriously, we have had great success with that, and to my knowledge almost never use the strongest setting. It uses the same motor as the We-Vibe Tango, which I’ve seen rated as three stars of power on a scale of 1-3. The Touch is nice because it’s coated in medical-grade silicone and has a somewhat flexible tip.
Beyond that, any vibe that is coated in silicone and rated to be high power might do the trick for you. We don’t have much experience with toys, but I’ve also heard/read that any of the non-vibrating stimulators might be good. Think the Lelo SONA, the Satisfyer Pro 2, or a Womanizer. I know several members here have reported using those. Apparently, some women find them extremely pleasurable.
Just a request, but would you please post an update once you decide a path to take and try it out? I see so many threads asking for help that never get a follow up. I’m sure it would be helpful to others with similar questions (plus toys are relatively new for us so I’m curious to hear personal accounts from real married users).
Not something we would choose on our own, but you can get a steal of a deal on the Ola right now. From what I’ve read, it’s probably not as strong as some other options, but it is soft and this review has a coupon code to take $100 off the normally $149 vibe:
(Note that we are in no way affiliated with the reviewers or the company that makes this product.)
We have only tried to 2 toys in our 22 years… The Je Joue Mimi egg is one of them. It’s a clitoral vibrator. it’s soft, has something like 7 or 8 settings for speed and intensity, and it waterproof. My DW can O every time. Time it takes depends on the level we set it to. I don’t recall exactly, but I don’t think it was cheap. I’m more of a server than a “when am I getting mine”…so I use this often. The last setting is so strong, it goes through her jeans! The second thing we use is a penis ring vibrator. I don’t have a specific type cause we’ve used alot of different one’s..but the same concept. We find one that has a nub on the end that sits on her clitoris. it’s great for that deep penetration when you can grind against her and let the ring help out.
“Went with a Gigi 2 from Lelo.”
Thanks for giving us the update. I always like hearing from people after they’ve been given suggestions/advice and made a decision.
I hadn’t heard of the Gigi 2 so looked it up–surprised to see it is marketed as a G-spot vibrator. But it still gets the job done on the outside apparently? I don’t know what you used before, but this model looks like it could be used during PIV, so if you aren’t currently doing that, maybe you should try. 😀