Sounds of sex?

    What are your thoughts on as a married couple listening to sounds of sex via the internet? This would be purely listening no visual at all. This also is not live or with any particular people u know.

    Twin bed Asked on January 14, 2020 in Activities & Items .

    We have been married going on 21 years. Answer to someon’e question its auditory only

    on January 15, 2020.
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      This would be like a gateway drug.  I wouldn’t recommend it.  Why listen to sounds when you two can create them? 🙂

      Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on January 15, 2020.
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        Kitty,

        My biggest question is…why would you want to?

        Secondly, could you give a little intro…married, how long…etc?

        On the floor Answered on January 15, 2020.
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          I think this is crossing over into sinful & unhealthy lust and fantasy. I look at it as involving others in the privacy of your marriage bed, which is definitely against Scripture.

          Under the stars Answered on January 15, 2020.
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            Fantasy is not on the table be it visual or auditory.

            Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on January 15, 2020.
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              When first married, the couple living in the apt. above us would have loud sessions, mainly the woman expressing pleasure and encouraging her partner. I don’t recall it turning us on, maybe because we were already turned on most of the time already.  The structure overall transmitted sounds readily. Based on the other non-sexual sounds, I deducted that they most likely had a large anvil collection and would move it around frequently with lots of drops.  Maybe their fingers were still slippery from the loud sessions!

              Queen bed Answered on January 20, 2020.
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                I think it would probably be like most things that aren’t specifically mentioned in the Bible:  first, determine whether there is a principal given in the Bible that covers it. (For myself I don’t really think there is; at least not that comes readily to mind. If I had a notion to do this, I would have to do some study, to make sure.) Second, it would likely be a heart issue. Why is this something you want? Are you hoping to and predicting it will add to the intimacy and enjoyment of your special unique time together or are you just bored and looking for a quickie arousal aid? Or something else? Examine your motive before God and if it stands up, you probably can rest easy in his gift of playful sexuality with your spouse.

                Under the stars Answered on January 19, 2020.
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                  Would recording your own “sounds of sex” and playing those back be of interest? Could capture several sessions and put all the good parts on loop!  I’m assuming the good parts are all those SR mentioned!

                  Queen bed Answered on January 19, 2020.
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                    @ Earl that is an interesting idea to record our own sex sounds. I may try that 🙂 Just some background because I think someone asked: My husband & I have been married for 20 years. We do not have as much sex as we did when we were younger but now we are more adventurous.

                    Twin bed Answered on January 19, 2020.
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                      Speaking from the male perspective, God clearly designed the most powerful sex organ in your body…. the brain.  When you combine physical touch, with sexual sounds, smells and taste… you are fully engaged in love making.  This is not to say that if you don’t include all of this in each love making session that you are not love making… just to say that each of these senses can play a role in increasing the pleasure you receive (and give) in a love making session with your spouse.

                      I feel strongly that the church and Christians have wrongly constrained enjoyment in the marriage bed to the missionary position (nothing wrong with that position just it is not the only one but instead one of thousands of ways to enjoy intimacy with your spouse as you enjoy what the Intimacy Buffer has to offer).

                      God has provided an entire Intimacy buffet of ways to enjoy love making with your spouse and yet many mainstream  churchs/Christians have roped off most of it saying it is out of bounds.

                      Is it possible that the lack of pleasure which God intended for Christian couples is largely responsible for the high divorce rate in Christian marriages?

                      Is it possible that Christians have chosen to draw the line based on some notion of high society’s boundary rather than where God draws the line?

                      I think the position of Christians should be; if God didn’t forbid it… then it is on the Intimacy buffet should you and your spouse choose to partake.

                       

                       

                       

                      Twin bed Answered on January 19, 2020.
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                        My wife and I have never purposely sought out listening to sounds of sex but we have heard it before while in our hotel room, and I would be lying to say the sounds did not turn us both on.

                        Double bed Answered on January 20, 2020.
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