Swallow or not swallow
Girls. Swallow or not? I try to swallow but there is so much of it so I gave up trying. Why is so important to guys. So instead of swallowing my husband empties everything over my face. Not big fan of that either lesser of two evils. So much mess and clean up. Last time I tried to swallow half of cum came out my nose. Appreciate feedback.
BlueLi – I have a feeling why you are getting slammed with all the negative votes on your question, but that doesn’t mean your question deserves them or deserves no answers. I’m not a girl, and I suspect all the down votes are women – but who knows. Either way, unless you are a troll just looking to stir up controversy, a few words of encouragement can’t hurt.
I would strongly suggest looking around here for posts about this topic and gather some information and ideas to go back and share with your husband and find a way to work through this together to both your benefits. I will say as a man, that it is a greater sexual pleasure to finish inside rather than outside, but swallowing really has a zero affect on the physical experience of orgasm itself for the man. If there is anything to consider it might…might be mental in the form of the idea of your complete acceptance of him. But I will say that that is an obstacle he should be able to work around if he understands and is sensitive to it being difficult for you. If all you can do is spit it out after ejaculation, and you can be good with that, IMO, that is going far enough for any man, and further than most get already. There are other options to make your point, but I’ll not go into them here lest I get flamed myself…
In our marriage of 30 plus years, I will swallow on very few (but important times … like big anniversaries) times. Otherwise, at the last few seconds, I pull away and finish with handy work.
Trust me, if you wait until the last moment possible, he can’t stop, and still makes a mess (depending on how I aim it) and he is happy. I never let it hit me in the face, and usually have it aim and land either on my breasts or abs.
If you keep playing with his erection .. even after he is done, eventually you will get him into the phase of “post orgasm torture ” and you both will laugh and enjoy the humor and his sensitivity!