The most exquisite moment of sex?
My DH and I were have an intimate discussion, specifically, about the most exquisite moment of sex. We both love the special pleasure of oral sex – the vulnerability, experiencing the sights, sounds, textures, taste – in such an intimate way. And of course, witnessing each other’s orgasms is incredible. But we both agreed that there is no moment more exquisite or beautiful than that moment of first penetration. It’s at that moment when my loving husband first enters me that we feel so perfectly connected.
What is your most exquisite moment of sex?
Tough question. First moment of penetration is really high up there. The warmth and feeling of sliding in is just wonderful, so much so in fact that I’ll PE every once in a while. That said, most of the time we are so busy making sure things line up right we don’t quite savor the moment.
Taking that into account I would say the most exquisite moment of sex is the beginning of DW’s orgasm. At this point her mind is totally focused on the pleasure she is feeling. Her body prepares for the O with various movements and increased lubrication. She starts vocalizing and pleading for more stimulation to take her over the edge. Its just a thing of beauty.
The consolation prize goes to my orgasm, especially if I have lasted for a while. The primal urge to thrust faster, the pressure build up as my body prepares to ejaculate, and the feel of release as ejaculation occurs are quite exquisite.
The very best part is after sex, just laying there and enjoying the afterglow. The same words always run through my head: God’s in Heaven, all’s right with the world. And it always seems to me that Heaven couldn’t be better than that. (Disclaimer: it hasn’t always been that way.)
To me it is the tenderness in the way he approaches me and his general loving and cherishing attitude toward me. I was the victim of childhood abuse and emotional intimacy in the sexual act is still after all these years very hard for me.
It’s the moment of first penetration. The very slight physical pain in that second, coupled with the tenderness that I can see on his face as he’s watching me is magnificent. There are just so many emotions that rise to the surface. I’ve cried a few times because of it, and I’m not prone to tears.
What a blessing God has given us.