The stars have aligned…and I saw them!!

    Also, God is in the business of restoration.

    Having, regrettably, made public some discord between me and DH while it was still going on*, I would like to publicly declare that we are once again as harmonious as we have ever been. I am grateful to my DH for being a man who wants to meet my needs and make me happy and who loves me and forgives me when I forget how wonderful he is. God has worked in each of us and restored our good relationship

    *If we had ongoing discord, I wouldn’t have any qualms about sharing here to seek support and guidance. Since we are generally happy, however, and since we are both members, it seems to me like I really should work things out privately first, then share if the story can be beneficial to others. It worked out well this time, but I still feel a little icky about it.

    Now about those stars…

    With our my emotional baggage unpacked, it so happened that the dog learned to sleep in her own (new) bed, we both felt energetic, he felt flirty, and DD went to bed at a decent time and shockingly nothing else rose up to interfere…and I AM NO LONGER A PHV! (Post Hysterectomy Virgin–I just made that term up.) YAY!!! And I am thrilled to report that everything works just fine. Actually, really, REALLY well! OMGee the Os!!! I lost count,  they just kept coming so easily. We even tried a new position. And there was no bleeding or other damage, which was another big fear, since most tears happen the first time.

    ****THANK YOU, THANK YOU Everyone, for your prayers and support through this summer! It has meant so much to me!!****

    I hereby CLOSE the chapter of my life entitled “That summer life came to a screeching halt because of sudden surgery and we couldn’t have sex for three months!”

    And I OPEN the one entitled “Our Sexual Renaissance and New Adventures!”

    Bucket list, here we come!

    Tonight is the homecoming football game at our alma mater (different building, but it will have to do). I hope to convince DH to behave like a horny teenager.

    ANY ADDITIONAL IDEAS FOR TONIGHT? I’m ready to make up for lost time! 😀

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      Haha, I’m glad things are back on track for you guys. In answer to your question…. car sex, stairwell sex, field next to the event sex… those seem like pretty horny teenager things to do 😀

      Queen bed Answered on October 4, 2019.
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        Great news! I am so happy for you. Hoping you wear each other smooth out making up for all that down time. Enjoy!!!!!

        Fell out of ... Answered on October 4, 2019.
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          I’m happy for you. I don’t think there is anything more I could say. Just rejoicing with you.

          On the floor Answered on October 4, 2019.
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            Thanks for the update!  So glad to hear your good news.

            “I AM NO LONGER A PHV!”
            Neither is your husband :-).

            Queen bed Answered on October 4, 2019.
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              I am happy your seasons have changed! May this new season require no special alignment of stars for you two to come together and enjoy 😉

              Under the stars Answered on October 4, 2019.
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                Duchess, I had so happy for you! The famine is over. It is time for you to feast!!! So, keep on serving up great PIV, mind-blowing Os and marriage bed bliss!

                Under the stars Answered on October 4, 2019.
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                  i am so happy for you, God is good, it gives me hope for my prayers being answered!

                  Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on October 4, 2019.
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                    Amen!  Amen!  Amen!

                    I’m thinking half-time OS would be awesome to prepare for the main course later!

                    Another idea….Strip poker or UNO. 🙂

                    Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on October 4, 2019.
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                      Amen and praise God! So happy for you Duchess! I think you should go commando and find a moment to give DH a peek!

                      King bed Answered on October 4, 2019.
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                        whooo, that’s great news!

                        On the floor Answered on October 4, 2019.
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