Thursday, January 9, 2020 – Today’s Question(s) of the Day
We are willing to laugh at things, slip ups, memories, whatever we are finding funny at the moment. No jokes really, but if a one liner is fitting, it might come out of my mouth. I tend to inject humor when a room is getting too emotionally intense.
@Duchess – when we drive by DW’s old stomping grounds from before we were married, I always point out to her the corner gas station where I always stopped before my hour plus drive home to get a pop and go to the bathroom, which I tell her always took about 10 minutes to be able to start to going to the bathroom after I left her house because of kissing her long and passionately before leaving 😉 (if you know what I mean). I was SOOOOO glad when those days ended!!!!
We don’t usually crack jokes during sex, we will occasionally laugh if something goes wrong in a humorous way. We do however joke around about sex a lot during the course of a regular day. Lots of double entendres, and euphamisms. We are watching the show Gold Rush right now and it it provides lots of fodder…”glory hole” (we’ve adapted that with our own heterosexual meaning) “chunky nuggets” etc.
Generally speaking, I frequently take things too seriously in life ( one of my male friends once told me, ” You’re just too dramatic ” )while DW has her own special way of lightening things up for me and taking the tension off any situation.
Her way has been a real blessing to me, and this carries into our MB. Before her, I was not accustomed to talking at all during sex, in my mind it was serious business and not to be taken lightly.
Well, needless to say, she has helped me find a new kind of fun and enjoyment in the MB, and the communication during sex has been a blessing to me.
As has already been stated, we will find humor and laugh if something goes wrong or not as planned.
Flirting can often be humorous for sure. During sex itself, yeah, one liners will pop out. Not long ago she had to cough during PIV and immediately said, “You’re tickling the back of my throat, must be extra excited and big tonight”.
When we were younger we had some challenges with sex, and that also resulted in us taking it to seriously – no way we’d have joked then. This is healthier and humor about sex makes it easier to talk seriously about sex when needed.
Yes, we do like others have said. I can’t think of any but sometimes in the moment/act it can be so funny it’ll take me out of the moment so I’ll need some more stimulation. Something happened today during a 2nd act quickie and we just laughed and laughed and laughed. I didn’t finish and that was ok because laughter is a great way we connect and I LOVE laughing with and making my wife laugh. I’ve heard it said laughing together is one of the best things we can do to build emotional intimacy between us.