Today’s Question(s) of the Day: 11/18/2019
Yes, I have. And so has DW!
We know that we would have sex anyway but we make it sound like the “deal” is the way we are going to get it! I do this more than DW because I teaser her more than she teases me. It is also fun to do this because it gives the (false) impression that this is the only way we are going to get sex!
Yes, we have, though I don’t recall any details. I know there are times I was trying to get things done, like in the kitchen, and he’s all handsy and won’t leave me alone, I will throw out a playful threat that if he doesn’t stop he won’t get sex later. He just laughs and says something like, “Oh really!?! Is that right!?!” but he’ll usually stop after that.
I’ve done it in a playful teasing way towards my wife. She’s very conservative and LD, but willing when it comes to sex so maybe I’m projecting what I’d really like for her to do. For example, if I’m asking her for specific help with something out of the ordinary I might say, “if you’ll help me with this I’ll make sure to take care of you later in the bedroom.” Usually gets me a playful roll of the eyes or a grin.
Yes. I will sometimes ask dh to do a special project for me, stop and grab something at the store etc. and tell him I will “make it worth his while” and he will sometimes tell me (tongue in cheek obviously) that I “owe him” for something he did for me.