Today’s Question(s) of the Day: 11/19/2019

    What is your favorite playlist for sex? If you don’t use music during sex, why? 

    Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on November 19, 2019 in Question of the Day.
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      We don’t use music because my DW likes it that way.  I believe that sex is a sacred gift from the Father that could be experienced with the right music.  I just haven’t found it.

      Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on November 19, 2019.
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        We have a Google Home mini in our bedroom and always listen to ClassicFM regardless if having sex or just falling to sleep.  We can turn on/off our nightstand lamps with voice commands as well.  No I’m not worried about big brother listening in.

        Double bed Answered on November 19, 2019.

        Are you not concerned the people at Google are listening to you having sex? Or worse yet snoring?

        on November 20, 2019.

        No I’m not worried about big brother listening in.

        on November 20, 2019.
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          We don’t listen to music while having sex, not against it its just never occurred to us and I think anything with lyrics has the potential to be distracting for me.  I am curious about sensory deprivation during sex with a blindfold and earbuds with music but we’ve never tried it.

          On the floor Answered on November 19, 2019.
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            We usually use a nature sounds app, but would be open to trying music…any suggestions?

            On the floor Answered on November 19, 2019.
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              I strongly suggest:

              Bach’s mass in B minor:

              My funny valentine: Miles Davis in Concert – this record bleeds arousal, anticipation and release… in absolutely NO hurry. Listen for the guy @ 1:52.

              Both can function ambiently or intently as you like.

              Twin bed Answered on November 20, 2019.
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                I can’t remember ever using music in over 23 years of marriage. Not against it, just haven’t thought much about it. No radio in the bedroom either.

                California King Answered on November 19, 2019.
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                  We don’t play music during sex. The only time we’d do it is for white noise.

                  We like listening to each other, our words, our groans, our breathing, our other body sounds!

                  Under the stars Answered on November 19, 2019.
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                    We rarely do, because for me it’s more distracting than helpful. Even instrumental renditions of songs I know, the lyrics come to mind and I start singing in my head rather than focusing on what’s going on and sensations. Songs that have no lyrics, if I have heard it with a certain scene of a movie or show, my mind brings up the memory of that scene.

                    Under the stars Answered on November 19, 2019.

                    Haha, I totally agree, although my wife likes music so we sometimes compromise.

                    on November 19, 2019.
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                      During sex?  I do not remember, that was too many years ago.

                      My wife was interested in us having sex from 1980 to 1985, but not since then.

                      Double bed Answered on November 19, 2019.

                      My condolences

                      on November 20, 2019.
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                        I love music, it helps me get out of my head and focus on us.  Lyrics are usually weird but not always.  Some jazz can be VERY sensual and actually put me in the mood if it’s got the right sound to it.  The main thing is that it has to work for both of you or it can be very distracting.

                        Queen bed Answered on November 19, 2019.
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