Today’s Question(s) of the Day: 11/20/2019
Your spouse texts you telling you they’re in the mood for spicing up the bedroom, that they’ll do whatever you desire if you come up with a steamy roleplay scenario and one or more costumes: What scenario do you propose and what costume(s) do you get?
I greatly dislike costumes and am ambivalent to role play. So “whatever I desire” would not be along those lines. Honestly what I’d most desire is for him to come up with a situation/scenario/extended time of exploration along the lines of what he knows I already like and initiate it confidently. Bondage, sensory deprivation, and sensation exploration would be on my “list” for sure.
Bring out the pirate and the wench gear, ‘ahoy matey!
My wife and I were talking about how the pool needs to be cleaned, and I said I would be her “pool boy”. She got a little giddy after that…I need to follow through with that one this summer.
I’d take a pass on that for myself, but am willing to do something he wants if he asks.
Suggestive Scenario
A park warden doing his regular job, comes across a lady enjoying the wild but having a hard time erecting her tent. Deciding to give her more than lip service, he offers her a hand to spread things out, giving special attention to the folds and creases, as well as the front opening. After being laid out before him, he confirms with her where to insert the peg. She said, “Close to the mound with the bush.” He asks her to give him a hand. “I’m coming right now!” she gasps, as she grips it firmly and he pushes it in.
This is a “high-drive” question, because my first reaction, and the feelings are still there after reading and considering an answer multiple times… “If you’re in the mood and wanting to spice things up, why is all the work being put on me? No thank you.”
@SeekingChange Maybe you should come up with some “low-drive” questions?
I have always wanted to go to Colonial Williamsburg and wear a long dress with a low-cut bodice and stay in one of their private cottages on the grounds with DH. That’s all I will say🤓
There are companies that make historically accurate costumes. Or if you sew, there are some great patterns for this sort of outfit. There’s also a lady who lives in “downtown” Colonial Williamsburg who walks her cat on a leash every night. Look for them if you get to go! 😀
Lol, my idea of sewing is a hot glue gun! I will look for cat woman if we go!
Been to Colonial Williamsburg , very nice place. I love the history there.
Right now I’m really liking the idea of him being a deadly assassin and I’m his intended target. He changes his mind of course 😉 Costumes? Just him in all black. I’d wear something a bit revealing but not too much. I’m not expecting a hot assassin be coming for me after all! And the highest heels in my closet.
Being the male, this would be easy for me to do. It is whether she could go along with it without laughing or just thinking I’m being cheesy!
My wife already has the school girl outfit. Seems like an easy one to do school girl and teacher/professor, giving the student a chance to earn extra credit!
You could make it more intense by going from a failing grade to trying for a passing grade…
That is exactly the scenario I would play out.
We’ve never done role play, but I read this a while back that might interest you (or others):
