Today’s Question(s) of the Day for 10/11/2019

    Would you rather try out kinkier sex ideas or have romantic sex?

    Fell out of ... Asked on October 11, 2019 in Question of the Day.
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      Why can’t kinky sex be romantic?

      I’ve read that if you need sex to be kinkier because you’re bored, you probably have personal issues with connecting emotionally.

      I think if you can be emotionally present during sex, you can be as kinky as you want and still keep it romantic.

      Fell out of ... Answered on October 11, 2019.
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        I have always leaned more towards kinkier.

        My husband would be Romantic.

        Under the stars Answered on October 11, 2019.
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          yes.

           

          In all seriousness. If I had to choose… kinkier, but those definitions are likely moving targets for many and will vary with the members of this site.  My wife and I had this discussion the other day.  A few weeks back she said, “I want romance tonight” .  I told her, please be specific as to what this really looks like to you, I don’t want to do flowers candles and cook dinner only for you to say “what I meant was slow and easy lovemaking” or vice versa.

          Double bed Answered on October 11, 2019.
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            kinkier

            California King Answered on October 11, 2019.
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              Kinkier

              Fell out of ... Answered on October 11, 2019.
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                No doubt, kinkier without going into the areas of cuckolding, swinging,  orgies or threesomes….vanilla sex is so boring.

                Fell out of ... Answered on October 11, 2019.
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                  It depends on how well we have been connecting sexually outside the bedroom. Lots of flirty and fun interaction make me feel like I have been romanced so I am ready for kinky, but if we have been like ships passing in the garage, I need romance to connect or kinky will make me feel used.

                  On the floor Answered on October 11, 2019.
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                    It really depends.  Sometimes slow and easy and long is the very best and other times “I just need to be taken!” kind of sex is what I crave.  And that leans more toward the “kinky” side, or at least pushing the boundaries a bit.  I prefer to think of it as “adventuresome” rather than “kinky.”

                    Fell out of ... Answered on October 11, 2019.
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                      I love romantic sex! I will never tire of romantic sex. So, I was to try out a new idea, I’d try the occasional kinky sex idea 🙂

                       

                      Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on October 11, 2019.
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                        Fortunately, both my wife and I much prefer kinky sex, so we are on the same page.

                        Queen bed Answered on October 11, 2019.
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