Today’s Question(s) of the Day for 10/18/2019
A hand on the front of my neck is also a recently discovered pleasure for me, but it has to be very light and accompanied by a lot of tenderness, even if there is some “masterful” play along with it. It is extremely easy for the pleasure of this one to turn into a very distasteful feeling. (Just to clarify, I don’t have any sexual abuse in my background; it’s just a regular feeling of discomfort.)
This is perhaps a fetish that Mrs. Oldbear had that I didn’t know about until one day she took matters into her hands! About two years ago, she was giving me a handjob while we were laying side-by-side. As I was reaching the PONR, she clearly wanted to direct the result toward my face. I had enough control left to ask her if that was her intent and her sexy, affirmative response took me right over the edge. It was a fantastic experience!
Two fetishes for me-
Stocking tops. I love the ‘border’ effect of sexy fabric next to delightful skin. Wind up spending a lot of time touching and kissing there
Mrs. Hornet’s toes- very exciting to kiss and suck them. She also gets great pleasure and excitement. Plus, the view is great , especially is she is self-pleasuring in some way.
Being dominant. Examples include holding both of her hands behind her back in “man on fire” position, putting my hand on her neck and then moving her face/neck as I see fit, asking her dirty questions I already know the answer to just to hear her submissive and sexy answers. It helps a lot that DW is a natural submissive, though maybe it’d be more arousing if she wasn’t 😛
I have always been very self-aware, so there’s really not much “I didn’t know”, the only thing I can think of that my husband introduced and I hadn’t really considered, but I like, is a light, firm pressure at the base of the front of the neck, that gives light air restriction.