Today’s Question(s) of the Day for 10/18/2019
I have always been very self-aware, so there’s really not much “I didn’t know”, the only thing I can think of that my husband introduced and I hadn’t really considered, but I like, is a light, firm pressure at the base of the front of the neck, that gives light air restriction.
A hand on the front of my neck is also a recently discovered pleasure for me, but it has to be very light and accompanied by a lot of tenderness, even if there is some “masterful” play along with it. It is extremely easy for the pleasure of this one to turn into a very distasteful feeling. (Just to clarify, I don’t have any sexual abuse in my background; it’s just a regular feeling of discomfort.)
I am very turned on by the thought of watching my wife in bed by another man. I don’t know where that came from but a fetish doesn’t equate with reality so I’ll keep it as a fantasy. In terms of reality, I really enjoy anal sex with my wife and some light BDSM.
I’m not even sure if this qualifies as kink – we are quite a vanilla couple, but I like to finish on DW’s vulva and I like her wearing black thigh highs and sometimes I like to finish on them too. I find it a bit kinky but DW does not think it is.
This is perhaps a fetish that Mrs. Oldbear had that I didn’t know about until one day she took matters into her hands! About two years ago, she was giving me a handjob while we were laying side-by-side. As I was reaching the PONR, she clearly wanted to direct the result toward my face. I had enough control left to ask her if that was her intent and her sexy, affirmative response took me right over the edge. It was a fantastic experience!