Today’s Question(s) of the Day for 11/25/2019
Starting to get turned on, I get this feeling in the vulva area…. describing it is difficult. I often have an awareness of “that feels good”, I sometimes have an extended thought of “if I keep on going [being stimulated in the same manner], I might be able to orgasm.”
Other signs are sensory things… when not aroused certain stimulations can be uncomfortable/painful, ticklish or just unpleasant (e.g. kisses/sucking on breasts, neck or lips; direct genital/clitoral contact, etc) Once turned on, those same actions are pleasurable and increase arousal, rather than detract from it.
When I read the question, I wasn’t sure how to put it into words, but Seeking Change said it PERFECTLY. Just copy her entire answer for me, verbatim. Then add a post-script: in addition to receiving certain acts being irritating vs. pleasurable, being turned on dramatically changes my interest in performing certain acts, especially oral sex. When not aroused, performing OS is a major turn-off. But if I’m aroused, I have an intense desire to do it.
@slipthegrasp: “Or more commonly I simply command myself to be so.” Quit bragging! 😉 LOL just kidding. Must be so nice to be able to do that!
I think for me it starts in my head. I’m usually thinking about a million things all at once so if that all suddenly goes quiet and I’m focused in on him, then that is my big tell. Right after that comes the faster heartbeat, and just a NEED to be touched, accompanied by more physical tells like heat and tingling.
Warm and tingly in the vulva. A feeling of being cross-eyed, sleepy eyed, or just plain wide-eyed-blind as my attention becomes focused inward. In the lower abdomen (between the naval and the mons) I notice a feeling of–expansion? swelling? lift? A little like it’s being filled with helium, but vibrating. It’s similar to the sensation I get when I’ve been in the hospital and the good drugs kicked in. And often the cause is because of a light touch on the skin (kiss to the back of the neck, etc.) and my skin will goose-pimple, my hair will stand on end and my back will crawl like a cat’s pelt.
For me (besides the obvious erection), I noticed that I will feel energy (in all places) in my throat building and I will stretch with my chest extending out…I guess it is the way my body tries to circle that energy or expose it more through stretching.