Today’s Question(s) of the Day for 12/03/2019
tentsofpurple and OWM pretty much covered it for me, and arhunt summarized it nicely: it is a turnoff when people are not treated (and I’ll add, don’t behave) like human beings. A caveat: I do understand the appeal of tapping into the animal side of our natures during passionate sex, as long as it is in the sense of animals mating–joining with the unique other half of one being. (I know few animals mate for life; it’s an imperfect metaphor.)
no pee or poop that is disgusting. Anything involving kids is out of bounds. Feet I don’t get. Dominating I don’t get. Most of the rest I may not enjoy but I at least understand why people fantasize about it even if they would not do it. Most of the common top fantasies I have thought about at one point and I cant say they turn me off. But its a difficult topic to get honest answers on.