Today’s Question(s) of the Day for 12/11/2019

    What are the ways that you deal with sexual frustration either with your spouse and/or a situation that you find yourself in?

    Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on December 11, 2019 in Question of the Day.
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      I first stew awhile. Than prayer, and searching for answers as to what the root of the problem is. Sometimes I bring it up for discussion, and sometimes it all works itself out, without bringing up the subject.

      Under the stars Answered on December 11, 2019.
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        I can’t think of any such thing right now. But, over the years when something like that would arise, prayer has been one of the first things I do. Also, I try to think it through and analyze why it has become a frustration. And then also discuss this with DW in a careful, sensitive, and frank manner.

        Under the stars Answered on December 11, 2019.
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          First, communication. If it continues to fall on deaf ears, then it’s an issue between the Lord and I… What does He want me to do? How does He want me to think and act?

          Under the stars Answered on December 11, 2019.
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            Pray first , then think about what to say in the most constructive and non-hurtful way, and then consider the timing. A good time is when you are not having conflict. A bad time is when you’re arguing. The  worst time is when you are having sex.

            Double bed Answered on December 11, 2019.
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              The only real issue of sexual frustration I have dealt with in our marriage is when we get in a cycle where we just aren’t doing it enough. Generally I have failed to pray first. I tend to just go straight to DH and say, “Hey! This is bad! We need more sex!” He says, “I agree!” and we either make a change, or have the same conversation again a little later. (Maybe the prayer first would help us make the change sooner.) I don’t know why it never occurred to me to pray about lack of sex. I also can’t bring myself to pray when I’m on the toilet, unless it’s an emergency. Silly, ingrained, mistaken thinking I guess.

              Under the stars Answered on December 12, 2019.
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                Interesting question and good one. Always pray first. Then try to communicate and if that don’t work pray some more.

                Double bed Answered on December 11, 2019.
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                  I always find it useful to clamp my mouth shut first and ponder and pray over it and not let emotions rule

                  Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on December 13, 2019.
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