Today’s Question(s) of the Day for 12/13/2019

    What is a turn on for you that other people may see as a turn-off?

    Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on December 13, 2019 in Question of the Day.
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      Mrs. Oldbear’s tummy shows the beauty of childbearing – stretch marks, slightly yet firmly rounded. It’s a tremendous turn-on for me.

      Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on December 13, 2019.
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        May not turn others off but it sure does turn me on…. A Pregnant woman.  Especially that beautiful belly and full breasts.  God made the miracle of life such a beautiful thing.

        King bed Answered on December 13, 2019.
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          I agree with OB. Many are turned off by the effects of childbearing and child rearing (stretch marks, wider hips, extra roundness/softness, grey hair, etc). To me, those are all marks of my wife being a true warrior, and a sign of her strength and sacrifice, and that is a huge turn on for me.

          Fell out of ... Answered on December 13, 2019.
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            My wife wearing her eyeglasses.  Glasses are hot!

            California King Answered on December 13, 2019.

            Love it! My Mrs can really rock a pear of glasses too XD

            on December 13, 2019.

            —I meant “pair” not “pear” lol

            on December 13, 2019.
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              I don’t know that it’s a turn-on as such, but I enjoy noticing it as part of enjoying my DH’s body:  His body hair has a tendency to whorl, hurricane style. I love playing with it, and running my fingers through his soft body hair.

              Under the stars Answered on December 18, 2019.
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                As I believe has been mentioned before, these “turn on” questions can end up as questions mostly for HD/spontaneous spouses. We often have to “translate” them into their nearest equivalent for Zelda’s responsive drive.

                For Scott: The answer is the same as in yesterday’s thread: talking about finances with my DW.

                For Zelda: Nothing really comes to mind that is a turn on–at most, there are things that DH does that can make me more willing to be aroused.

                Under the stars Answered on December 13, 2019.
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                  I don’t think this is necessarily a “turn-off” to others, but it’s probably not a “turn-on” for them, but it’s the closest I can come to answering this question….. pain relief via massage, especially of the lower back.

                  Under the stars Answered on December 13, 2019.

                  Gotta make sure to avoid “mortification” 😳 at someone’s hands in a public place though! 😆

                  -Scott

                  on December 13, 2019.

                  LOL!  Exactly!   Have to avoid certain chiropractors and spas or massages.  It’s why my husband has to sign up for massage courses.  🙂

                  on December 13, 2019.

                  Me too except mine is my upper neck.  Dh will sometimes have to pull back on giving me a neck massage when we are in front of the kids because of the noises I unconsciously start to make.   But he also often initiates by giving me a massage so it works to his advantage in private settings.

                  on December 17, 2019.
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                    I agree with someone who said a pregnant woman!

                    Also, some ladies’ feet.

                    Under the stars Answered on December 13, 2019.
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                      I’ll join the chorus: pregnant women. I find something deeply erotic about them. When DW was pregnant with our babies, our sex life went through the roof. (Fortunately pregnancy turned her on too.)

                      And another thing: I find some women’s ankles very erotic.

                      Fell out of ... Answered on December 14, 2019.
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                        This may sound crazy, but when my wife is upset about something! IDK what it is, but she gets this fire in her eyes and it’s really hot. Also cause she has something in her heart to defend the weak and it’s beautiful to me. When she gets that righteous anger in her eyes it looks like some sort of ancient warrior queen getting ready for war
                        She’s a fighter and I love her.

                        Queen bed Answered on December 13, 2019.
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