Today’s Question(s) of the Day for 12/13/2019
I agree with OB. Many are turned off by the effects of childbearing and child rearing (stretch marks, wider hips, extra roundness/softness, grey hair, etc). To me, those are all marks of my wife being a true warrior, and a sign of her strength and sacrifice, and that is a huge turn on for me.
As I believe has been mentioned before, these “turn on” questions can end up as questions mostly for HD/spontaneous spouses. We often have to “translate” them into their nearest equivalent for Zelda’s responsive drive.
For Scott: The answer is the same as in yesterday’s thread: talking about finances with my DW.
For Zelda: Nothing really comes to mind that is a turn on–at most, there are things that DH does that can make me more willing to be aroused.
I’ll join the chorus: pregnant women. I find something deeply erotic about them. When DW was pregnant with our babies, our sex life went through the roof. (Fortunately pregnancy turned her on too.)
And another thing: I find some women’s ankles very erotic.
This may sound crazy, but when my wife is upset about something! IDK what it is, but she gets this fire in her eyes and it’s really hot. Also cause she has something in her heart to defend the weak and it’s beautiful to me. When she gets that righteous anger in her eyes it looks like some sort of ancient warrior queen getting ready for war
She’s a fighter and I love her.