Today’s Question(s) of the Day for 8/8/2019
I like that my genitals still work as designed and have given both my wife and I countless hours of immense pleasure. I like that they’ve given me three wonderful children. I am affirmed knowing that my wife likes them.
I wish they were self cleaning!
Looks-wise, I don’t pay attention or care. I had never even seen them until I was in my late 40’s. I am grateful for their role in my beautiful daughter’s life. I like how they feel when I MB. I dislike that I was not engineered to enjoy PIV. At times that brings me great sorrow. John Piper in “This Momentary Marriage” says he thinks God gave us sex so we could have a glimpse of how great heaven will be, and I found that to be highly distressing. I was in the middle of a crisis of both marriage and faith when I read it, and I began to doubt whether it’s all even worth it. If God can create people who don’t enjoy sex, maybe he created people who won’t enjoy heaven. (I don’t feel that way anymore. )
It isn’t really something I dislike, but I wish I had been wiser when I was younger. Ignoring that pain “down there” cost me a testicle due to a torsion. Honestly tho, it is something I am seldom aware of. It was always fun going thru a physical in the Army tho. Sometimes the remarks were downright hilarious. “Hey, did you know you only have one testicle?”???? Really, Doc. I never noticed.
As far as likes, I like that they still work the way they are supposed to most of the time.
i finally like the look of them (why women have such a dislike for the vulva is beyond me although i was one of them-maybe it is because of all the criticism and high standards women are held up to for their looks) as i’ve stated before i think the vulva is intensely erotic, therefore appealing (although not even what i consider pretty or beautiful so if i look at it that way–as erotic–then i do like the look of it) but what i do not like is how mine gets easily irritated despite lube and HRT and how it feels different at different seasons and not much really i can do about it.
I remember thinking that the skin of the labia majora, kind of looked like elephant skin 😆 Kind of like the skin of the scrotum reminds me of chicken skin without the feathers. 😯 One thing that used to bother me, was my coloring. When reading or when seeing nudity by our societies standard of beauty, you almost always see or read about the “pink” or the “rose/rosy” coloring. I have come to see the beauty of my coloring, browns and pinks go well together 😉 …. not that I look at it often, but because I have, especially in the aroused state, I know what my husband sees when he looks and I can now have some understanding when he speaks highly of it.
I honestly love mine, especially the size and shape. They’ve helped produce 7 wonderful children and they’ve brought my wife and me a lot of pleasure. I think maybe the only think I dislike (and only slightly) is that I don’t ejaculate as far as I would like. But that’s only a minor complaint.
What shall I say? There’s a lot to like! lol!
I like the color, shape, size, etc. Most of all, I like that DW loves them. 😀 And she seems to want to hang on to them!
I used to dislike that they had a mind of their own, back in my teenage years. So many times when I wished for greater control! But, those days are gone and much joy, fun, and satisfaction has been part of my life because of them since then. As well as 6 descendants! (3 boys and 3 girls)
What I also like about them is they have never been shared with anyone but one woman. So, while I’m a one-woman-man, they are one-woman-genitals!
I have never really cared what my vulva looked like. DH never says anything about what he thinks, so it didn’t occur to me to wonder if he thought it was okay. What I don’t like is that with age, it is so easily irritated. Judging by the responses, the men are the lucky ones; they mostly seem to be just pleased as punch with their stuff! 😉