Today’s Question(s) of the Day for 9/17/2019

    If you had only ONE choice…

    Would you rather NOT be able to see and have sex (blindfolded) or not be able to touch during sex (handcuffs)? 

    Fell out of ... Asked on September 18, 2019 in Question of the Day.
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      Dang this is a tough one. On the one hand the visuals are a big part of sex for me. The beauty of her naked body cannot be understated. Plus seeing myself penetrate and watching her body’s responses to stimulation are very arousing.

      On the other hand I need to feel her and contribute to her pleasure. Don’t want to miss out on the softness of her breasts and lady bits, her amazing behind, or the feel of her hips as I use then to pull myself into her. Also handcuffs would put all the work on her to sexually satisfy both of us. Even blindfolded I know what parts I need to touch (and in what way) to get her to O.

      So I guess I’ll go with the blindfold.

      Hammock Answered on September 18, 2019.
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        Having done it before, I would prefer BOTH. Good times. But being limited to one, I would choose to be handcuffed so that my visual desires are met.

        Fell out of ... Answered on September 18, 2019.
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          I choose hancuffs. I naturally close my eyes as it is to focus. Removing the ability to touch would heighten the experience in different ways.

          Under the stars Answered on September 18, 2019.
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            This was a tough one for me because my love language is touch and I also love the visual too.  I chose blindfold because touch brings oxytocin to flood my system and enhance our closeness.

            Fell out of ... Answered on September 18, 2019.
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              I would choose the blindfold. While I love to see, I also get really turned on by being able to touch the many wonderful parts of DW’s body! And if I was blindfolded, DW would be sure to have fun teasing me with your best parts or directing me, my mouth, and my hands to her favorite parts! 😀

              Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on September 18, 2019.
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                I would go blindfolded because my  hands just naturally gravitate to where they need to during sex, which I think makes the sex way better.

                Queen bed Answered on September 18, 2019.
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                  Both sound amazing and either one would cross a wish off my list.

                  Double bed Answered on September 18, 2019.
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                    I’ll take the cuffs.  It would force DW to use her hands a little more.

                    Hammock Answered on September 18, 2019.
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                      Blindfold – I often close my eyes anyway.

                      Twin bed Answered on September 18, 2019.
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                        It’s interesting to see whether people choose something that is comfortable or easier for them, or something that challenges them 🙂

                        Hmmmm….. I wonder what that says about us 😉

                        Under the stars Answered on September 18, 2019.
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