Today’s Question(s) of the Day for 9/19/2019
Is this a one time or ‘a limited amount of time’ choice or a lifetime? That makes a difference on the answer. For a lifetime, I was leaning towards 10 minutes, and then I thought some more 😁
I like efficiency. I also think if everytime you have sex it is amazing and 47 seconds, we could have a lot more sex, in a lot more places, with a lot less energy. It would be nice to enjoy some things that has been fantasized, but in reality doesn’t quite work out. ….. sneaking into a secluded dark corner, slipping into a room at a party, using a dressing room, having some “fun” while out and about, but trying to keep it secret… the ability to have amazing sex in less than a minute, opens new kinds of doors here.
I’m with Hungry, “I’ll try amazing sex for 47 Alex.”
Amazing sex! These days, ‘average sex’ for 10 minutes is amazing sex! Seriously, Mrs. Oldbear and I no longer use an orgasm as our single benchmark for fantastic sex. Just this morning she shared her frustration with not achieving her O during her solo time. When I reminded her that sex comes in different ways for us these days, she smiling warmly and knowingly.
@Elevation: I always look forward to your question of the day, but I hope you are about done with the “Would you rathers”. My particular flavor of anxiety means decisions make me itch! Even down to which package of paper plates to get–true story, just now, at the grocery store! Thank the Lord DH was along so I could turn it over to him!
~sigh~ Okay, I’ll play. I guess it depends on your definition of “sex”. If it has to include all of the foreplay and touching, then neither would be satisfactory, but 10 min would be better than only 47 seconds! But if it only counts the PIV and thrusting part, then I would take the 47 seconds for the reasons SC gave, as long as I could have all the time I wanted for the rest of our sexual behavior that didn’t actually include thrusting PIV.
But how awful it would be to lose the option of either one! My imagination is too vivid to not fully feel as if I were really, truly making each choice you have suggested; you have no idea the mental torture you have put me through lately! Lol! 😀
Whose sex experiences are we averaging? Because if am to take an average of our MB, then average is also in the amazing range! So, I definitely go with 10 minutes!
But if average means average by what we hear so many couples have, then I would try the average one time – just to sample what others out there actually have it 😉 And then go back to amazing again!