Today’s Question(s) of the Day for 9/19/2019

    Would you rather have amazing sex that lasts 47 seconds

    – or –

    have average sex that lasts 10 minutes?

    Fell out of ... Asked on September 19, 2019 in Question of the Day.
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      Is this a one time or ‘a limited amount of time’ choice or a lifetime? That makes a difference on the answer. For a lifetime, I was leaning towards 10 minutes, and then I thought some more 😁

      I like efficiency. I also think if everytime you have sex it is amazing and 47 seconds, we could have a lot more sex, in a lot more places, with a lot less energy. It would be nice to enjoy some things that has been fantasized, but in reality doesn’t quite work out. ….. sneaking into a secluded dark corner, slipping into a room at a party, using a dressing room, having some “fun” while out and about, but trying to keep it secret… the ability to have amazing sex in less than a minute, opens new kinds of doors here.

      I’m with Hungry, “I’ll try amazing sex for 47 Alex.”

      Under the stars Answered on September 19, 2019.
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        To me, even average sex is pretty dogone amazing. So I’ll take 10 minutes of it please.

        Fell out of ... Answered on September 19, 2019.
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          Amazing sex! These days, ‘average sex’ for 10 minutes is amazing sex! Seriously, Mrs. Oldbear and I no longer use an orgasm as our single benchmark for fantastic sex. Just this morning she shared her frustration with not achieving her O during her solo time. When I reminded her that sex comes in different ways for us these days, she smiling warmly and knowingly.

          Fell out of ... Answered on September 19, 2019.
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            @Elevation:  I always look forward to your question of the day, but I hope you are about done with the “Would you rathers”. My particular flavor of anxiety means decisions  make me itch! Even down to which package of paper plates to get–true story, just now, at the grocery store! Thank the Lord DH was along so I could turn it over to him!

            ~sigh~ Okay, I’ll play.  I guess it depends on your definition of “sex”. If it has to include all of the foreplay and touching, then neither would be satisfactory, but 10 min would be better than only 47 seconds! But if it only counts the PIV and thrusting part, then I would take the 47 seconds for the reasons SC gave, as long as I could have all the time I wanted for the rest of our sexual behavior that didn’t actually include thrusting PIV.

            But how awful it would be to lose the option of either one! My imagination is too vivid to not fully feel as if I were really, truly making each choice you have suggested; you have no idea the mental torture you have put me through lately! Lol! 😀

            On the floor Answered on September 19, 2019.

            The benefit of defining “sex” as PIV, and everything else being “sexual”…. I had no anxiety or dilemma there 🙂

            on September 19, 2019.

            LOL…I know these choices are indeed tough!  Yesterday’s question made me truly pause and think!

            on September 19, 2019.

            And yet I noticed there’s another one today! LOL 🙂

            on September 20, 2019.

            @SeekingChange Yes, I am decided on “sex” being only PIV because you are right, that way there is all the rest on the table!

            on September 20, 2019.
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              10 minutes??  Seriously who has sex for only 10 minutes?  30 minute minimum.

              Double bed Answered on September 19, 2019.

              Me 🙂

              on September 19, 2019.
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                Whose sex experiences are we averaging? Because if am to take an average of our MB, then average is also in the amazing range! So, I definitely go with 10 minutes!

                But if average means average by what we hear so many couples have, then I would try the average one time – just to sample what others out there actually have it 😉 And then go back to amazing again!

                Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on September 19, 2019.
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                  Can anything amazing come in only 47 second intervals?  I and we will take door No. 2 and the 10 minutes.

                  California King Answered on September 19, 2019.

                  It does in this hypothetical!

                  on September 19, 2019.
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                    I’ll jump on the multiple O train of amazing sex for 47 seconds (over and over and over again!).

                    King bed Answered on September 19, 2019.
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                      I have always wondered what amazing sex would be like, so of course I’ll choose the 47 second option!

                      Fell out of ... Answered on September 19, 2019.

                      Unless you’re just amazed that it only lasted 47 seconds.  I guess that could be amazing sex, too, regardless of the quality! 🙂

                       

                      on September 19, 2019.
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                        10 mins because 47sec is too short, and dw probably isnt finished with me yet.

                        Double bed Answered on September 19, 2019.
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