Today’s Question(s) of the Day for 9/20/2019
Would you rather:
– Be a sex slave to your spouse for one month with no say on when, how, where you have sex and cannot say no…
– Wear a chasity device that only your spouse has the key to and they have total control?
This Q for the Day made me think about Mrs. Oldbear doing it to me and me doing it to her.
For me, I would pick #1. The idea of wearing anything that is confining is a non-starter for me due to discomfort and my adverse reaction to restraint. Being her ‘slave’ would be interestingly curious for me. I’m intrigued to think how and how much sex she would want. However, I imagine that it would be no different than now. I’m the HrD spouse.
For her, I cannot conceive of subjecting her to either option. I can’t wrap my head around making her my ‘slave’ even in a playful, fantastical sense. It runs counter to my deep sense of loving and respecting her. The idea of binding her with a chastity device is even more challenging to consider. That would be taking my gentle, loving mindset for her, too far.
I honestly don’t see what the difference is between the two. If they have total control in #2, what says they won’t use it frequently and whereever they want?
I will go with #2 because it just sounds like there may be a mindset of his limitations going in….like unsaid boundaries.