Tuesday, February 11, 2020 – Today’s Question(s) of the Day
I haven’t found that thing yet, and I hope I never will. We’ve only stopped a handful of times in all our years together, either because a kid interrupted with a need that couldn’t be quickly met (ie suddenly sick) or because of a sudden acute pain on my wife’s part. Thankful for how rare such things have been.
With the sound of the question, there was only one time I can recall where I said, “no more” and things abruptly ended, and it was in our early years, and it was because of sudden extreme pain.
There have been few times,in the past year, where I felt that way by just the idea of having sex, so I never let things get started. (But he was either offered or reminded that there are other options for him and he is free to use them.)
I’ve had a couple of times where I just wasn’t going to get there and had to stop. I’ve mentioned it before, but if intercourse goes on very long my wife either starts looking bored or in discomfort. If she’s looking bored I need to finish pretty quick or it’s going to get in my head.