Tuesday, January 28, 2020 – Today’s Question(s) of the Day
Once in a blue moon I get a “dick pic” from him while he is at work. I love knowing he is thinking of me when he is away and turned on by thinking of me, and if he is going to the trouble (and at least a little RISK) of doing that, he is probably planning to rock my world that night!
He also once went commando when we went out somewhere and waited til we were away from the house to tell me. It was very exciting.
@Chelle–I sympathize with your frustration. There are many things that are said to have great sensual effect on men that just don’t do a darn thing for my DH. I remember in high school, our peer group would hang out in the Library each morning before school. It became a “thing” for us girls to come up behind the boys and gently tease the hair at the nape of their necks. All the other boys would shiver and, well, imply that it gave them an erection. (Not that we should have been encouraging those things, but–teenagers.) My now-DH sat like a block of wood, and I don’t mean that kind of wood. Never phased him. He gets nothing out of massage, even when he has sore muscles, he says it doesn’t help, much less excite him otherwise. It does sound like your DH is somewhat worse, but I can sympathize with you.
Don’t give up! SOMEthing must get him in the mood. Keep trying to find out what it is and focus your attention on that.
I’ll pray for you!
Her favorite in public is to reach under the table at a restaurant and rub my inner thigh and/or rub her foot up and down my calf under the table while smiling demurely.
She picked up a few pounds in the wrong places over the holidays that she’s trying to lose before we leave for a trip in about 4 weeks. She’s self-conscious right now so she’s not particularly flirty nor responsive to my flirtations. Hopefully that will change soon.
At this time, I cannot recall any instance he attempted to tease me. Last year when I trying to boost our intimacy encounters, I personally attempted to tease him often. I tried to implement many of the tips found here and on the main TMB site. Things such as suggestive texts and words, touches and peeks at flesh or under garments. Later he told me none of that had any effect on him. I have stopped doing any of it.
This question was making me think about my husband and “how he has teased me”, and I can think of attempts but there were no “best ways”, and @Chelle’s answer fits with what I was thinking. It was along these lines….. can someone be teased with something, if they really have no, or little, interest in it? My husband may think he’s teasing me, because the same actions would be a tease to him, but when there’s little to no interest in what they are trying to allure us to, it’s an irritant rather than a tease.
@Chelle, I am sorry you aren’t getting the experience you crave and what is a part of God’s design for marriage. 🙁
Sometimes she sends me unsolicited boob shots while I’m at work. Those always get my motor running. 🙂
When we’re out on a date she likes to sit across the table from me and angle herself to accentuate her cleavage.
She also has a habit of discreetly licking her lips at me in public.