Vibrator Suggestions

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    Does anyone have any recommendations for a vibrator we can use with penetration? We have a bullet style he wears but it’s way too long and surpasses my clitoris. So I tried to just hold one there but it was very exhausting and didn’t work out. Thanks for any suggestions or links 🙂

    Double bed Asked on January 9, 2021 in Activities & Items .
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      Hands-free vibrators I’m aware of:

      We-Vibe Chorus: (also mentioned by @NWNL). We have this. It’s definitely a premium product and quite expensive. Zelda (my DW) has never gotten an O with it before–note that she requires a vibe to O, and her “best spot” isn’t a “standard” one and actually moves around day to day and even during a single session. That said, it’s really well built, and we’re still fooling around with it (hoping to get an O in missionary, as we can’t do that with our normal setups). Oh, and We-Vibe has several different options similar to the Chorus, with the Chorus being the newest and top-of-the-line model.

      Partner Multifun 1 Vibrator: Never used this, but @Wheat48 posted about it a while back, finding great success with it. The Married Dance link has diagrams of the many possibilities for it. It is far less expensive than the We-Vibe product.

      Dame Eva II (not a Married Dance link, but appears safe): A hands-free vibe with a rather unique design. I’ve read it only fits a minority of women. The motor is also pretty weak (we have the Dame Fin, see below, which has the same motor, so I have firsthand experience). However, it works for some women I’m sure.

      Other Couples’ Vibrators: This is just a link to Married Dance’s couples’ vibrators so you can see some of what else is out there. This is certainly not exhaustive, as it doesn’t include the Partner Multifun listed above. They also have a Hands-Free section.

      I do think you should look into other options for you wielding the vibe during PIV. As I said, my DW requires a vibe to O, and the large majority of her vibe experience is with concurrent PIV (which makes both the clitoral stimulation and penetration more pleasurable). Position could be important. For instance, side-of-the-bed positions like Standing Missionary are pretty easy on the arms for the wife wielding the vibe. If you like rear entry, Man on Fire may be easier on your arms than Doggy Style. Turtle may also be easier to work than Doggy Style. Also, don’t be afraid to use a pillow to prop up your vibe-ing hand in the rear-entry positions! For WOT, you may need to find a smaller/skinnier vibe than you’re normal one.

      @NWNL also mentioned it, but the We-Vibe Touch is our go-to vibe. It’s like a large bullet vibe but is pretty ergonomic and quite powerful (rumbly). Even more popular is probably the We-Vibe Tango, which uses the same motor but doesn’t have the silicone dampening the vibration, plus it’s narrower so easier to use in WOT. Honestly, for either of those two, I’d consider waiting until the new versions, the Touch X and Tango X [not Married Dance links], are released later this month (especially the Tango X because it will now have silicone on the grip end!) We have also used the Dame Fin, which got Zelda her first O but just doesn’t do it like the Touch. Benefits are that it’s smaller, but more importantly, crazy ergonomic!

      Honestly though, you and your DH know your body, budget, and preferences best. You might just do best to browse through Married Dance’s bullets, cuddler, and finger vibrators to see what looks best. Or just browse their entire vibrators section! If you narrow down to a specific model, you can always ask others here about them.

      Good luck, and have fun shopping with your DH!

      Under the stars Answered on January 9, 2021.
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        I’d suggest going to marrieddance.com. It’s a sponsor of the Byerly’s ministry. There are multiple ideas as many have suggested before on TMB. WeVibe Chorus is one. The WeVibe Touch is another some have suggested. There are some others that Satisfyer has. I can’t remember off hand but I’ve got one hidden as another surprise for my wife at a future date that I’ll bring out, maybe for Valentine’s Day. Only time will tell when it appears (that or she reads this post and asks for the “surprise”). 😆

         

        Under the stars Answered on January 9, 2021.

        You keep dropping those bread crumbs for her…does she ever see them?

        on January 10, 2021.

        😆 😆 😆  Sometimes she does. DW’s activity here depends on her schedule and the rest of school, family and life’s activities when she pulls her laptop out. Sometimes I’m on (or just in front of the TV) and she gets her laptop and sits down with me. Other times, I bring up TMB or she asks about it so she may or may not find this specific post, probably not with the change over.

        I’ve even said something hoping she’ll discover it. I actually typed the above post sitting next to her on our loveseat…but she was engrossed in some crazy show about three different stories about people & bear attacks on PRIME. UGH!!! She loves to watch HOARDERS and other survival shows because of her interest in psychology and her schooling right now. (Side note: we actually ran into someone who was on HOARDERS while killing time in a Salvation Army Store in a nearby city.  DW recognized her and her voice. The women clearly didn’t change from being on the show with her family’s intervention.)

        If DW reads the post or others when I give a hint or desire, I always hope she’ll come running to me with the thought I shared.  Admittedly, she has not installed a stripper’s pole in the living room or bedroom yet but I’ll keep hoping for big dance from her!!!  😆  ‘Cause the only thing that I get when I dance and do a tease is laughter! 😀  But it’s always amazing how I can turn that into a little something-something. 😀

        on January 11, 2021.
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          Would a vibrating penis ring work?

          There’s plenty of choice on the market at a wide range of prices, so if that’s what you’ve already tried maybe look at some slightly different designs.

          Speaking specifically of couples vibrators, we have the we-vibe unite and have so far only successfully used it once. Further experimentation is required to evaluate.

          Alternatively, you could try a different position. Perhaps if you lie on the edge of the bed with him standing, one of you can use a vibrator to bring you to climax whilst his penis is inside the vagina but without much thrusting, he can then start thrusting and continue until he ejaculates.

          On the floor Answered on January 10, 2021.
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            Silver bullet that you hold. Also eroscillator is nice, you hold and control the speed.

            On the floor Answered on January 10, 2021.
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              Personally, we find cheapy ones like the link below works best for us. But the one in that link is a little more intense than others we have used in the past, that I actually preferred because of lesser intensity, but we can’t find them anymore.

              The wire actually helps keep it in place, by running it up my torso and having the hand control over my shoulder, therefore it’s a hands-free experience for us. I have constant stimulation, unlike vibes HE wears, but the body movement changes the pressure of what I feel. The cons: There are times I have to readjust it, because it does move. Right after I O, I either have to turn it off, but usually it’s easier to just yank it out, because of how painfully sensitive my clitoris gets. And it’s not very convenient for rear entry.

              Really, for under $15, what does one have to lose to try it?

              Under the stars Answered on January 10, 2021.
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                Thank you everyone! I’m excited to find one to try!

                Double bed Answered on January 11, 2021.
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