We are trying new things!

    Well, I worked up the nerve to talk with hubby about adding a toy to our LMing, and he said he would try it if I wanted to try! 🙂

    So we decided to browse online and see what was available.   WOWZA!!!  There are sooo many toys out there, some look fun, some look silly, and some look scary lol

    We ultimately decided on a penis shaped vibrator and a vibrating penis ring for him.  We can’t wait to try them! 🙂

    I want to thank eveyone on here who has commented on my previous posts and encouraged me to have the talk and to consider a toy or 2.

    I can’t wait to give you the updates on how it all goes 🙂

    King bed Asked on November 10, 2019 in Activities & Items .
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      I’m curious:  Did the shopping together turn either/both of you on? When DH and I shop for that kind of stuff, or for lingerie online it gets us both in the mood. It’s as if we are doing something a little bit naughty together and the thrill brings out our frisky sides. 🙂

      Under the stars Answered on November 11, 2019.

      We haven’t shopped on line, but we have done some in store shopping, which is always a turn on looking at different toys or lingerie.

      on March 31, 2020.
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        Well, first off, sorry for the delay.  I was planning to update the next day, but just didn’t.

        As far as our experience with the toys, well, it was different.  We were both nervous, like it was out first time again.

        DH and started like we normally do, with kissing, foreplay, touching, and some 69ing.  But instead of going right to PIV, we tried the vibrating penis ring.  Well, that was a bust.  It vibrated amazingly, but the ring part wasn’t snug enough, and wouldn’t stay in place.  It was too loose and we didn’t even try PIV.

        Then we tried the vibrator, which turned out to be shockingly big.   When we opened the box, I think the neighbors could hear my screaming OMG!!  lol    We decided that missionary would probably be the easiest.  I was on my back with my legs apart.  DH got between and rubbed the end of the toy up and down a few times, just like he does with his own equipment.   Then when I told him I was ready, he slowly inserted it.  This was pretty much my expression as soon as he started :O   lol

        Every few seconds he would stop and remove some, worried he was hurting me.  I asked him to keep going.   I’m not going to lie, the feeling was intense and kind of overwhelming.  But I let him keep going.   After a few minutes, i told him to stop, as I needed to catch my breath and adjust to the new feelings.  I asked how much was in, and he said about 2/3 of it, so about 4 inches.  After I had relaxed, I had him keep going.   He slowly worked it in and out, and several minutes later it was all in.   I  was shocked by the feelings I was experiencing.  It was incredible!  I felt so full and stretched.  Then the emotions hit me.  I started crying.  Hubby got scared and pulled it out.  He hugged me and apologized, but I kept telling him it wasn’t his fault, and I wasn’t hurt., I was just over whelmed.

        We hugged and rested and kissed for a few minutes, then I decided to give him some pleasure, so I gave him OS and then got on top.  I rode him until he O’d and then we cuddled and eventually fell asleep.

        Here’s the part that has kept me from posting my follow up.   I feel guilty.  I feel like I cheated.  Are these feelings normal for first time toy use?  I am ashamed for how my body reacted, especially in front of my DH.

        Has anyone experienced this? :/

        King bed Answered on November 15, 2019.
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          I don’t think you should feel guilty at all. It brought you intense pleasure which is awesome, and I am sure your husband was very turned on by that. I think bringing out the toy from time to time will only enhance your self life and open communication.

          Queen bed Answered on November 18, 2019.

          I know we shouldn’t use it too much, but I kind of wish we would use it everytime. :/

          on November 19, 2019.
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            We were both shocked when we started browsing.We both had wide eyes and out mouths dropped open lol.

            We ML after our little shopping trip, I was definitely wetter than usual and DH popped in about 30 seconds, so it’s safe to say he was excited too lol

            The package should be arriving today.  I hope it’s not delayed by the weather :/

            King bed Answered on November 12, 2019.
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              The toys arrived!  We are gonna shower then  try them out!

              I’ll update you all tomorrow.   Wish us luck!!  🙂

              King bed Answered on November 12, 2019.
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                I’ve never tried a vibrating penis ring before (just a C-ring) so definitely let us know how that works. Good luck!

                Queen bed Answered on November 13, 2019.

                The vibrating c ring was not successful, but the vibrator was amazing!

                on November 19, 2019.

                We are thinking of a dildo and or glass wand and was wondering does anyone have experience and preference based  on that experience. Also any experience with using a sleeve while she doing oral sex on him

                on March 29, 2020.
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                  I just saw your post along with your experience with the vibrating dildo.  I hope you have gotten over the guilt feelings and have continued to use it.  I believe that if it’s not immoral (not Biblical) or illegal it can be included.

                  On the floor Answered on March 31, 2020.
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