QOTD- 3/20/20 – What has been the quickest duration for both of you?
Ok, in answering another question, this thought came to mind, what has been the shortest amount of time it took for BOTH you AND your spouse to O and be satisfied? Time meaning start of the physical connection, clothes coming off, etc.
What helped make it that way? How often does that experience happen vs your usual time and experience? What is the length of typical encounters?
If you mean both to reach the quickest O, it would be between 5-10 minutes as foreplay is customary for us. And even for quickies, DW requires some foreplay. What makes it quicker would be the situation, the emotional buildup. Also, if we have been apart, the anticipation causes us to come more quickly.
If only me, a shorter time than that. But, I enjoy “slow sex” more than quickies!
Ok so, for us it’s been 10-12 minutes. One of the hottest time we remember from our honeymoon was at the end of a day going at it and finishing in less than 20 minutes which shocked us both by the intensity and the fact that we’d already made love a couple times earlier.
I would say it happens every month or two when DW is at the peak of her hormones and we’ve connected emotionally (read as talked about feeling or spiritual things), and then things just take off with a deep kiss and clothes and hands start flying. In comparison, our typical encounters last between 25-45 minutes.
For my DW and I, it was our second day of marriage. Spooning turned in to spooning LM, and we both just suddenly reached O after five minutes or less. It’s actually somewhat more memorable of an experience then our first time the night before. Ironically, we’ve not had much success with spooning LM since.
Quickest times – under 5 minutes (can’t give an exact time)
What helped make it that way? – In short, sensations just felt good upon penetration which led to a quick climax in me, and then he follows. The longer story of what helps in our situation: 1) We rarely do much foreplay, my preference. 2) Maybe my body is trained, but within seconds (less than a minute) from first entry, I am fully lubricated (if not too much, which actually hinders, not helps). 3) A use of a bullet vibe to aid. and 4) Me having some desire for sex before we start.
How often does that experience happen vs your usual time and experience? There are times the rate is higher than other times, but it’s often enough to not call it a rarity.
What is the length of typical encounters? usually 10-15 minutes, on occasion up to 20-25 min.
Our quickest times are about 2-3 minutes. We have a go-to position/move that does it for us, but due to only taking a few minutes, we don’t use it too often, although we both love it and its my favorite. We are rather working on spending more time in sex, not less.
Quickest time? Probably 5 minutes.
What helped make it that way? She was trying to take a nap and had a need….lol She shot me several texts telling me she needed me “NOW.” Since she was already turned on and I was turned on just from her strong need and desire for me, we both orgasmed quickly.
How often does that experience happen vs your usual time and experience? Not very frequently. It seems to only be times when DW is 300% ready to go and can barely contain herself.
What is the length of typical encounters? We typically average anywhere from 45 minutes to 1.5 hours.
Under 10 minutes, including foreplay. That was a rare moment of the stars aligning where we both really wanted it, and miraculously she had her O after only 3-4 minutes of using a toy (usually anywhere from 10-45 minutes). Switched to PIV and I was done within a minute. We were both surprised by how quickly we were done.
Our average is 20-25 minutes, with most of that PIV because DW doesn’t want or need much foreplay. I like it to last as long as possible but generally try to speed things along once she’s done so she doesn’t get too sore.
Quickest only takes a minute or two for both. Usually somewhere “risky” and exciting, that we’ve been planning and teasing about all day so we are both very ready by the time it happens. The other day on our back porch at lunch time I lasted maybe 30 seconds and she only about 45 seconds, lol
- Quickest time: About 5 minutes. As mentioned below, if we do not have sex for over a week DW is especially responsive, and since we always use a wand when she is in that state she O’s pretty fast! Her Oing always makes me go quickly.
- What helped make it that way: DW was unusually ‘in the mood’. She can get that way if we have not had sex for longer than a week.
- How often does that experience happen vs. usual time: Probably once every other month or so.
- Length of typical encounter: 45 minutes