What are some of your favorite words or noises you enjoy sharing while making love? Does having an empty nest increase the volume?
We have 3 teens at home, so usually we try to keep loud moans or pleads to a minimum. If I (DW) know they are gone I’m much more at ease and more loud/vocal. That being said, we both always tell each other either “I’m cuming” or “I’m going to cum” we both appreciate and love to hear each other erotically say it
We are very vocal and creative with what we say, blurt out, and ask.! We use racy words when ramped up. We ‘beg’ for . . . graphically. Mrs. Oldbear is sexily vocal when she Os. What we say and the noise we make is in sync with our level of horniness.
I am vocal when I know she needs it to get over that edge for orgasm. I use certain words describing the actions I am performing on her to push her down that O train track. She doesn’t use words only slight moans during orgasm or grunts if I am thrusting too hard. The best noises however are the actual sounds of PIV. The wet environment as 2 bodies collide together in rhythmic motion is enough to drive me wild. We have a few teens that are around so most of the time we try mask with white noise but we don’t really try to cover up anything completely.
DH is VERY conscious of being overheard, so if I get too loud he will put his hand over my mouth (which is actually kind of a turn on). I’m not usually inspired to say much of anything in words and if I try to talk dirty or something it feels forced, but grunts and moans are very natural for me and I am louder when DD isn’t home. I have asked for him to be a little more vocal about letting me know he is enjoying what is happening, and he is making an effort to please me.
I was going to ask about noises during ML, but saw this post, as I just joined a few weeks ago, so thought I would join with my experience. I am more vocal and louder than my wife is so at times for ambiance and noise filtering we will play music during ML. Like Liverr, my wife will always moan “I’m cuming” just in case I couldn’t tell from her body language. And like Oldbear, we’ll both be a bit racy as well. This past week I was in such a heated moment because of what my wife was doing I used a term I’ve never used during sex before. I asked my wife later if she heard me since I was right by her ear and she said no, so I told her what I said and if it bothered her. She wasn’t surprised since she knows I like what she was doing and said it didn’t bother her.
On hearing others, many years ago I lived in an apartment and worked third shift so slept during the day. On occasion the couple in the apartment above me would wake me up in the afternoon because their bed squeaked terribly while having sex.