What does it for you outside of lingerie?

    OK, so while most men like seeing their wife in lingerie, and since many women don’t care for lingerie, what does get your motor running as a male OR a female from every day wear?

    For instance, i love it when my wife puts nothing but one of my officiating jerseys/uniforms.  Other ideas might be nothing but a partially buttoned dress shirt with the sleeves pushed up  or a T-shirt.

    For my wife, I know if I put on nice jeans or slacks and a leather jacket she wanted me to get last year and take her out, I know that it won’t take long after we get home all clothes will be off.

    Ladies, what would do it for you if your husband put on _________?

     

    On the floor Asked on January 20, 2020 in MARRIED SEX.
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      I like my husband in good fitting pair of jeans and a well fitted, short-sleeved shirt that happens to be snug around his biceps. I find his arms very attractive, the shape, the muscles, the veins, the hair…. today, I got to see a still shot of him from yesterday’s church video on FB, after being apart for over a week, and it stirs a desire in me to get home. 😉 

      Under the stars Answered on January 20, 2020.

      “…it stirs a desire in me to get home. 😉  “

      It made me smile to see that quote SC. I don’t think I’m the only one here that worries about you and burn out with your DH!

      -Scott

      on January 21, 2020.

      Three deaths in this past week of family and people from my past, also aids in one wanting to hold and be held. The one shaking me up the most was a girl from college, a year younger than I, who went peacefully to bed, and didn’t wake up.  And now her husband and 5 kids unexpectedly face a future without a wife and mom.

      on January 21, 2020.

      I’m so sorry to hear that SC. Sounds brutal for you. Still glad to hear that you’re wanting to hold/be held by DH though.

      -Scott

      on January 21, 2020.

      I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. What a tragedy. You are in my prayers!

      on January 23, 2020.
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        Skirts, cleavage accenting tops, sundresses

        King bed Answered on January 20, 2020.
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          Low cut tops that accentuate her breasts.

          Eyeglasses.

          Her long, black skirt.  It gives her an urban fantasy look that’s very hot.

          Hammock Answered on January 20, 2020.
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            Of course, DH is Man Candy in a tux, and it’s been soooo long since he’s had a reason to wear one! A nice suit is good, too. He also has this black leather vest that’s very sexy, especially when he wears it with a collarless shirt. I love his cowboy hat. Almost any shade of green; it sets off his eyes.

            Under the stars Answered on January 20, 2020.

            “Man Candy”??? LOL!!

            on January 21, 2020.
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              Neither DW nor I are really big fans of lingerie.  Like you, I find nothing hotter than  DW in one of my dress shirts with little or nothing on underneath.  She’s very short and could actually get away with wearing one in public as a shirt-dress, although I haven’t been able to talk her into that.

              Queen bed Answered on January 20, 2020.
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                Almost anything works!

                Also, when DW undresses in a sexy way, it really gets me going! 🙂

                Under the stars Answered on January 20, 2020.
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                  1. Certain retro looking clothes, such as paisley bell bottoms or plaid pants. It’s not that these things are sexy to me in a direct way but they are expressions of a fun, unique personality, and that’s definitely sexy.

                  2. A top that shows midriff, cleavage, or that accentuates the breasts. In the wrong situation (well, many typical situations) depending on the top, such a top may be considered inappropriate by most people. Even so, I gotta love a top like that.

                  3. A nice dress that’s classy but without being dowdy.

                  4. Bold colored clothes, e.g., bright red or kelly green pants.

                  5. Jeans that fit slim through the thighs. Below the knees, I have a strong appreciation both for bootcut/flare and skinny jeans.

                  6. Leather anything. A leather jacket, leather boots, a leather skirt, and above all, leather pants. I’m not really into fetishy-type leather stuff, but rather garments that are meant for going out on a date. I’m generally a sucker for anything shiny.

                  Most of these aren’t my wife’s style, but it would be cool if they were.

                  Queen bed Answered on January 20, 2020.
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                    Yes, her simply being “outside of lingerie” does it for me. LOL!

                    Seriously, many of the outfits she wear, which are modest but nice and attractive fabrics, patterns, etc. I find do it for me pretty well. Strange, huh?

                    Queen bed Answered on January 20, 2020.
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                      Mrs. Oldbear dresses impeccably every day. Her skirt lengths accentuates her trim, shapely legs and her tops beautifully outline her figure. It delights me and I tell her so in specific ways, every day!

                      On the floor Answered on January 20, 2020.
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                        I’m a wreck when DW wears jeans. She doesn’t wear them very often, but when she does, I can’t stop staring at her behind.

                        On the floor Answered on January 21, 2020.
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