What Good Habits Have Improved Your Sex Life?
What good habits have you formed that have improved your sex life? Praying together? Exercise? Learn to communicate?
I’ll start. For me one thing that helps is exercise. I’ve lost 40 pounds. Losing the weight helped with some ED issues.
The five minute rule: How we treat each other in the first five minutes we are together after being apart sets the tone for our entire time together. We used to be really good about it, but have fallen away from it some. I guess this falls under “good habits we need to shore up”!
I really like this question. It actually has me thinking, do I need to adopt some good habits to improve my sex life? Because a good answer to your question does not immediately spring to mind. We communicate more about our expectations of each other which helps, but maybe I need to be a little more proactive. I’ll think on this more.
Relishing intimacy with each other.
Enjoying sex in many ways; tenderly, with or without orgasm, focusing on the pleasure of each other, and being generous to and with each other (the importance of marital sexual union per I Co. 7:5).
Two things, one like Oldbear, enjoy tender sex and not always striving to rush to the orgasm or even orgasm at all. Me and my wife enjoy sex without orgasms or rushing to get there. Sounds crazy, but it is nice.
Second, we both like to masturbate and we both stopped doing it without being with each other. We started the no masturbating with your partner thing a few years ago and I can definitely say it makes it better to wait and do it with your partner.