What is something that your spouse has done recently that made you think “That is sexy!”?
Personally, I rarely get those “That is sexy!” kind of thoughts and feelings, it’s just not how I am wired. I am just not a spontaneous type of person. My feelings usually come after some contemplation and processing. But, when I get that rare spontaneous feeling, I take notice!
This kind of sounds random and out there, but the other day we were meeting a couple of couples for drinks/appetizers (my first outing with others), as “their pastor”. Right before we were getting ready to leave, I asked if we ought to ask them if they will be bothered we aren’t wearing masks. My husband said, “No, we will just go, if they have a problem, we’ll leave! Whoa! That was a firm stance that I rarely see in my husband, he is usually one who really tries to soften and handle things in a “loving” manner, wanting to please others… and here it was obvious he has my heart in mind, and would take a firm stance for it. I immediately responded with, “Man, you are really doing some sexy talk! That makes me want you!”
What is something that your spouse has done recently that you think “That is sexy!!”
(Not sure how that question got so big??? 😳 )
(Edited to normal size…edit back if you want. -Scott)
When DW show her body naturally and unashamed and is not trying to cover or hide. Like when she suddenly walks around in the house to find/get or do something in just a pair of shorts, a short skirt or a pair of tight fitting jeans with nothing on above (completely bare above the waist). That is SOOOO sexy to me. Way more sexy than if she wore just panties or were completely naked. I don’t know why…
Maybe a little carnal/primal, but recently Zelda was standing right next to a window naked (the window is fogged). She raised her hands to fix her hair by that window, and the morning sunlight was coming in just right to give me this awesome view of her naked with natural lighting and in a nice pose.
This one just happened. I had a handful of very similar paint samples I was trying to decide between. I asked DH which one he liked the best. He looked for a couple minutes, than said, “I don’t know which one I like the best and it doesn’t matter to me, but I know which one you chose amd its good with me.” He than pointed out the one I had chosen and I had not told him. I don’t know that I thought it was so sexy, but a thrill went through me that he knew me that well!
He pulled me against him (my back to his front) in the shower and just caressed and nuzzled me in an erotic but not blatantly sexual (other than the fact that we were naked) way. (That is, he didn’t do any over groping, it was just…savoring me, I guess is the word for it.) That was sexy!
@C.Joseph–I’m not sure why you got a down vote. The way you worded it is a little odd, but I agree with you. I LOVE when my DH “stands up” for me. When he clearly demonstrates that my well-being, comfort, or desires are more important than anyone else’s agenda, that speaks to me on a primal level. In high school, another guy once made a (quite mild, actually!) insinuation that I was spending project time making out with DH instead of doing what I was supposed to do. DH chased him down in a threatening way. (He didn’t even have to do anything, the other guy knew he was being a jerk and bolted.) But I still get tingles when I think about him “standing up for my virtue”! We live a pretty drama-free life, but occasionally I kind of wish someone would get nasty with me so he had the chance to rip up on my behalf!
And this is why I get aggravated when I want him to ask for something special for me in the drive-thru and he doesn’t want to because he doesn’t want to confuse them. I know he just doesn’t want the hassle of dealing with a confused server, but it can feel like he is not willing to fight for my right to enjoy my egg sandwich with mustard! (For example. 😀 )
(As it happens, he did ask for mustard for me the last time, but it was the example that came to mind.)
My point is, for all our advancement as a species, in some ways we are very much still cave people!