What is the most ‘edgy’ (your definition) sexual activity you engaged in with yourself or your spouse?

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    ‘Edgy’ is your own definition. The question is intended to share creative insight to enhancing your marriage bed’s excitement. All of us have ‘comfort levels.’ Sometimes our comfort level is governed by ‘old tapes’ or uncertainty if ‘it’s ok’ or ‘is this normal’ or ‘would my spouse be ok with this and even like or enjoy it’.

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      I guess I though we were getting pretty edgy until I started hanging out here. 😉 Now everything we do seems pretty normal, which is kind of the point. I guess the thing that still gives me pause about admitting it, which probably means I think it is edgy, is AS.

      Under the stars Answered on September 23, 2019.
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        DW has a bit of exhibition in her so she loves to do it on hotel balconies or our back yard or back porch or in the car with the garage door open, but only if others can’t see. It’s the idea of being seen, not being seen itself.

        Butt plugs can also be fun.

        Sexy outfits.

        Wearing a vibrator in public while our on a date and sometimes having an orgasm in public from it (usually when she’s that close she finds a bench out of the way and rides it out trying to act normal).

        More I’d like to do that she hasn’t been willing to try yet…

        Hammock Answered on September 23, 2019.
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          I don’t worry about what is “normal” anymore. We were camping with friends and fully intended on sneaking out the 2nd night but we got rained out and im hoping to figure out how to do that soon. We’ve played a little with light bondage and being rough. Once im going if I’m in the mood I like my hubs to be pretty rough, I have to be worked up tho

          Queen bed Answered on September 22, 2019.
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            DW riding DH’s face

            Twin bed Answered on September 22, 2019.
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              i guess “edgy” for me would be taking H to completion in my mouth, that started a couple years ago.  There would probably be more i would do if sex didn’t hurt right now and my hip/leg was healed…i am hoping i’m not facing surgery.  Luckily we’re just taking it all in stride instead of becoming discouraged!

              On the floor Answered on September 23, 2019.

              Praying for your hip and leg situation, that God will bring health and function and relieve all pain from the area. Praying that he will do this miraculously for his glory so that the doctors will see that it was done not by their skill but by the power of God. Praying you will continue to be positive and praying for protection for you from discouragement!

              on September 23, 2019.

              Oh! Thank you! 🙂  H and i managed PIV last night and although it felt swollen inside, it didn’t hurt anymore than it usually does. I honestly think it’s some kind of a reaction even though i do everything right in that area (no scented anything, plain cotton underwear, etc…)

              Speaking of… how are you doing?

              on September 23, 2019.

              I’ve been thinking I needed to post about this for all the folks who have been praying for me.  I have now passed one full week with no leaking! I have one more to go, and then we will finally be allowed to carefully reintroduce PIV to our MB!! Thank you for asking.

              I will add prayers that you discover what is causing the reaction and or that it resolves and you will be entirely free from pain!

              on September 23, 2019.
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                I suppose frequent outdoor sex, backseat sex, and a little light bondage is about as edgy as we’ve done.  Came close to some non-Christian activity a time or two many years ago, but God is good and kept our heads on straight.

                Queen bed Answered on September 23, 2019.
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                  Mainly AS.

                  We’ve also delved into light bondage which I would like to see expand into some harder stuff in the future.

                  Hammock Answered on September 23, 2019.
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                    DP with a toy and him in either hole, me pegging him, our 69 rim sessions

                    Twin bed Answered on January 13, 2020.
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