What is the most ‘edgy’ (your definition) sexual activity you engaged in with yourself or your spouse?
‘Edgy’ is your own definition. The question is intended to share creative insight to enhancing your marriage bed’s excitement. All of us have ‘comfort levels.’ Sometimes our comfort level is governed by ‘old tapes’ or uncertainty if ‘it’s ok’ or ‘is this normal’ or ‘would my spouse be ok with this and even like or enjoy it’.
I guess I though we were getting pretty edgy until I started hanging out here. 😉 Now everything we do seems pretty normal, which is kind of the point. I guess the thing that still gives me pause about admitting it, which probably means I think it is edgy, is AS.
DW has a bit of exhibition in her so she loves to do it on hotel balconies or our back yard or back porch or in the car with the garage door open, but only if others can’t see. It’s the idea of being seen, not being seen itself.
Butt plugs can also be fun.
Wearing a vibrator in public while our on a date and sometimes having an orgasm in public from it (usually when she’s that close she finds a bench out of the way and rides it out trying to act normal).
More I’d like to do that she hasn’t been willing to try yet…
I don’t worry about what is “normal” anymore. We were camping with friends and fully intended on sneaking out the 2nd night but we got rained out and im hoping to figure out how to do that soon. We’ve played a little with light bondage and being rough. Once im going if I’m in the mood I like my hubs to be pretty rough, I have to be worked up tho
i guess “edgy” for me would be taking H to completion in my mouth, that started a couple years ago. There would probably be more i would do if sex didn’t hurt right now and my hip/leg was healed…i am hoping i’m not facing surgery. Luckily we’re just taking it all in stride instead of becoming discouraged!