What is the most ‘edgy’ (your definition) sexual activity you engaged in with yourself or your spouse?
‘Edgy’ is your own definition. The question is intended to share creative insight to enhancing your marriage bed’s excitement. All of us have ‘comfort levels.’ Sometimes our comfort level is governed by ‘old tapes’ or uncertainty if ‘it’s ok’ or ‘is this normal’ or ‘would my spouse be ok with this and even like or enjoy it’.
There are several ‘edgy’ activities that I’ve or we’ve engaged in.
Although we don’t engage in an ABR (adult breastfeeding relationship) we do simulate ABR. We enjoy me suckling Mrs. Oldbear’s breast(s) as she cradles my head. We find it equally nurturing and erotic for both of us. Not always does it lead to PIV, mutual masturbation, or orgasm for just one of us (usually me). Quite often (at least once a week) I’ll suckle her breast (willingly and generously offered to me) for a minute to 5 minutes.
Does sex on the pool table count as edgy? Spilling stuff on the pool table is not edgy though, just expensive. It’s edgy to have sex in the pool in the twilight. We bought an oversized dildo that vibrates which is very edgy playtime stuff. I learned that you can sit on it and it will go all the way in.
I don’t worry about what is “normal” anymore. We were camping with friends and fully intended on sneaking out the 2nd night but we got rained out and im hoping to figure out how to do that soon. We’ve played a little with light bondage and being rough. Once im going if I’m in the mood I like my hubs to be pretty rough, I have to be worked up tho
Sex on a public park picnic table at night. Sex on the hood of our Firebird in what we thought was a secluded area, only to find that we had been in full view of a long range video camera at a nearby government building. They came to ensure she was okay. We finished and we’re about to drive away when the other vehicles showed up. Oral on me in a moving car. I was driving. Her MBing on the passenger seat as we drove on vacation. All with my late wife.
With new wife, Analingus, anal, making sex tapes, holding her down and “taking” her (when she’s in the mood).
That’s it, so far…
The question and our answer may be a double entendre. While we’re not into heavy bondage, we do use restraints sometimes which we both find really erotic. And when we do, there can be lots and lots of teasing and edging before my orgasms.