What’s your LEAST favorite position you do, and why?

    There are many positions out there that many of us haven’t tried or can’t do, that’s not what I am talking about.  I am talking about any position you regularly use or have tried multiple times, and it’s just not for you, even if your spouse loves it and that’s why you do it.

    Under the stars Asked on October 31, 2019 in Intercourse (PIV) & Positions.
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      Spooning (not sure if it goes by another name). We just could never get our movements to sync.

      Fell out of ... Answered on October 31, 2019.

      We’ve never been able to make it work for us either. But we sleep in a spooning position every night!

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        I agree with a couple others…Spooning is not where it’s at. Maybe we’re just doing it wrong…we can never get the angle right, I keep slipping out…I defiantly like watching my wife too, so it’s not the best visually.

        On the floor Answered on October 31, 2019.
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          Elevated Missionary Position…The pressure the position causes on the wrists is NOT fun at all because I don’t want to crush my DW with my weight (now mind you, I’m not obese or muscular…I am slender and she is petite).

          I will chime in with the others about spooning…it’s not sexy at all and rather dull.

          Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on October 31, 2019.

          Same here, I hate to “crush” my wife. And, unfortunately, I am a bit overweight…

          on October 31, 2019.

          Do your wives complain about the weight or pressure? That is actually one of my favorite things about that position. I love to feel the security of the weight of my husband on me (he’s 190ish lbs)

          on October 31, 2019.

          My wife has complained about being “crushed” before due to her small Asian frame.

          on October 31, 2019.

          I have to say, for once in my life, that I guess it does have a benefit to being heavier than DH. He has super light bones, and I have super heavy ones, and I am more solidly built than he is. I have never thought about smaller wives feeling crushed. I guess DH doesn’t have to worry about that. I told him years ago, not to worry about squashing me. Thanks for enlightening me!

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            Mine is WOT. Why…. it’s too exposing and it goes against how I am wired on being able to climax. I have to focus on sensations and I can’t when I have to focus on things I need to do. Thankfully it’s not been a major issue in our marriage because my husband seems to have very little interest in that position.

            My second is any form of doggy style…. it’s usually painful or uncomfortable. I receive very little to no pleasure in that position. The reason it’s not #1, because it benefits me when I feel no emotional connection, when I desire things to be quick, and it’s often the one position that can get my husband restimulated enough when we run into snags (e.g. getting too close to the PONR, stopping and then losing his erection.)

            Under the stars Answered on October 31, 2019.
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              The Head Rush 1- Man is kneeling on the bed and woman is straddling him to begin with. She leans back so her head is off the edge of the bed. Her husband controls the thrusting as she enjoys the head rush.

              Ok, full disclosure. We’ve never tried that one!

              It would be scissors.  It requires more flexibly that we have. Perhaps if DW had the flexibility of a cheerleader it would work better!

              Under the stars Answered on October 31, 2019.
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                WOT. I can’t ever find the right angle, my legs cramp up, and I rarely orgasm from it. Dh loves it, so it’s a staple. I prefer reverse cowgirl if I’m on top. Better traction for my legs.

                On the floor Answered on October 31, 2019.
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                  Spooning. DW loves it because she can relax and it’s a go to for her in the morning when she can just scoot up to me and I can roll over and go at it. I do it because it’s easy for her, but I just don’t get much pleasure out of it. Little to no visual for me and when I climax I tend to slip out easily as I slowly lose erection. I enjoy staying inside for a little bit.

                  But….. Any position is great compared to not having sex so no true complaints!

                  Queen bed Answered on October 31, 2019.
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                    The cow girl does not give me much control.  That said, I not complaining that I do not like it, just saying its the least pleasurable.

                    On the floor Answered on October 31, 2019.
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                      69, because the angle he is at is not my preferred angle (I like it when he comes from below versus from above it feels better) and also because I can’t concentrate on giving or receiving at the same time.

                      I also don’t like sitting on his face because its ticklish, hard for me to relax and enjoy while sitting upright, and I also don’t like the dynamic of me being in a dominant position.

                      On the floor Answered on October 31, 2019.
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                        Doggy. Angle is tricky to get it in and keep it in.

                        Prefer Missionary is our usual and easiest for me to O, or WOT – infrequent but I enjoy the visual and me being able to lay back and enjoy.

                        Queen bed Answered on October 31, 2019.
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