What’s your LEAST favorite position you do, and why?
There are many positions out there that many of us haven’t tried or can’t do, that’s not what I am talking about. I am talking about any position you regularly use or have tried multiple times, and it’s just not for you, even if your spouse loves it and that’s why you do it.
Elevated Missionary Position…The pressure the position causes on the wrists is NOT fun at all because I don’t want to crush my DW with my weight (now mind you, I’m not obese or muscular…I am slender and she is petite).
I will chime in with the others about spooning…it’s not sexy at all and rather dull.
Mine is WOT. Why…. it’s too exposing and it goes against how I am wired on being able to climax. I have to focus on sensations and I can’t when I have to focus on things I need to do. Thankfully it’s not been a major issue in our marriage because my husband seems to have very little interest in that position.
My second is any form of doggy style…. it’s usually painful or uncomfortable. I receive very little to no pleasure in that position. The reason it’s not #1, because it benefits me when I feel no emotional connection, when I desire things to be quick, and it’s often the one position that can get my husband restimulated enough when we run into snags (e.g. getting too close to the PONR, stopping and then losing his erection.)
The Head Rush 1- Man is kneeling on the bed and woman is straddling him to begin with. She leans back so her head is off the edge of the bed. Her husband controls the thrusting as she enjoys the head rush.
Ok, full disclosure. We’ve never tried that one!
It would be scissors. It requires more flexibly that we have. Perhaps if DW had the flexibility of a cheerleader it would work better!
Spooning. DW loves it because she can relax and it’s a go to for her in the morning when she can just scoot up to me and I can roll over and go at it. I do it because it’s easy for her, but I just don’t get much pleasure out of it. Little to no visual for me and when I climax I tend to slip out easily as I slowly lose erection. I enjoy staying inside for a little bit.
But….. Any position is great compared to not having sex so no true complaints!
69, because the angle he is at is not my preferred angle (I like it when he comes from below versus from above it feels better) and also because I can’t concentrate on giving or receiving at the same time.
I also don’t like sitting on his face because its ticklish, hard for me to relax and enjoy while sitting upright, and I also don’t like the dynamic of me being in a dominant position.