When do women “usually” orgasm when making love?
DW:s, when do you “usually” have your orgasm when making love with your DH?
During foreplay, during intercourse (PIV) or after intercourse?
When would you like to have it of you could choose?
Usually “during foreplay” (although by that point we are no longer thinking of it as foreplay) with a vibrator several times. Then he Os during PIV. When we do it in the opposite order, I sometimes feel like he is bored waiting for me to finish, which just kills it for me and sometimes I don’t get there at all.
If we are finishing PIV, I have my orgasm after he is completely done and has withdrawn from me. I lay back in bed and he does manual internal stimulation while I stimulate my clitoris. If the foreplay and intercourse have been really arousing, I can have an orgasm in about 90 seconds with this method.
If we are doing PIA, I usually orgasm simultaneously with him, through self-stimulation of the clitoris.
I have never had an orgasm during foreplay, OS, or PIV.
As far as when I would like it, I would love to experience an orgasm during PIV or OS – I would feel more connected. The way we do it now, I feel like I’m having sex with only myself.
I don’t O during foreplay unless there is OS. I would say I normally O just before DH and during PIV. We like to time it so that when I O it stimulates him to O, if that makes sense. There are times when I’m ready to O within 3 or 4 minutes of PIV (with a vibrator) and we’ll change our position so DH O’s more quickly. Sometimes it will take longer for me, so we’ll choose a different position so DH can prolong his O. I’d say 20% of the time DH O’s before me, but usually this is on purpose and WOT. Sometimes I really want to be the one doing all the work and without a vibrator, so I don’t O during PIV. Very empowering! DH or I will finish me off afterwards.
DW usually O’s from manual stimulation of the clitoris after PIV. This is for several reasons:
1. She is more aroused after PIV.
She can orgasm before IC but she reaches her full aroused state after PIV. The thrusting and my O really turn her on.
2. How do I put this politely? Her body movements during an O are very vigorous. 🙂
We have orgasmed before during IC but her movements are so powerful that I am honestly afraid she will rip my member off. 😮 Much better for her to have the freedom to move and jive without worrying about hurting me.
3. During and after an O DW’s vagina gets very tight.
When she O’ed during IC her vagina became almost painfully tight. It also remains somewhat tighter than normal after an O. Thus intercourse is more enjoyable before her O.