Who enjoys being naked more?

    1. Who enjoys being naked more, you or your spouse? Why?
    2. When and where do you enjoy this most? In TMB? When you sleep? In your house? On certain days (i.e. Naked Tuesday) On vacation? etc.
    3. What holds you or your spouse back from being naked more? (or for some, from being more naked?)
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      Definitely me. Dh jokes that if it were allowed I would be a nudist.  I’m just much more comfortable without clothes constraining me, especially in the summer, I don’t love the feel of sweaty clothes sticking to me.

      I was the one to suggest that we sleep naked and after some hesitation (he doesn’t like to be cold) he now loves it. It’s actually warmer skin on skin than with clothes and feels so comforting. We have young kids so we can’t be naked around the house during the day, but after they go to bed I’ve been known to wear as little as possible while we snuggle on the couch.

      I think what holds dh back is that he likes to be ready for anything to happen. We live on a busy road and have had frequent accidents in front of our house, people knocking on the door for directions etc. he doesn’t want to have to scramble for clothes if something comes up.

      Funny story related to being naked, one night we had just stripped down to go to bed (I was completely naked and he was in his underwear) and we heard our chickens making an awful racket out back. We both went running out the back door to see what it was. I accidentally closed the door behind us and it locked! Dh had to sneak around the front door waiting for a break in cars going by to let himself back in and get a gun to shoot the mink that was attached to one of our chickens. He left me stewing outside in my birthday suit for quite a while looking for the pellet gun. Thankfully our back yard is private, surrounded by woods and a privacy fence but it was still nerve wracking. We joke about it now!

      On the floor Answered on August 15, 2019.
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        1. We think equally about being naked. We both love it.
        2. In our bedroom, for sex, and have slept naked since our honeymoon. (Unless we have a child in our room because of company or sharing a motel room.
        3. Children at home is the biggest reason we don’t do it more.

        Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on August 14, 2019.
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          My husband is definitely more comfortable with being naked, and he will often tell me to get naked when I’m complaining about being too warm or my clothes feeling uncomfortable. (We have an empty nest and the windows are up high enough in our house that nobody could ever see us.)  However, I just don’t like the feeling of being naked anywhere except in bed.  I’m too self-conscious about my fat rolls and pancake butt, and I can’t stand the feeling of my saggy breasts practically sitting in my lap LOL.   I also would have to put a towel down so that I wouldn’t stick to my fake leather office chair or be sitting naked on braided chair pads in the kitchen.

          We both love to sleep naked though and have for our entire marriage (even when we had a young child in the house).  My husband will actually get irritated if I come to bed with anything on.

          Hammock Answered on August 14, 2019.
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            1. I do! I am much freer with my body than DW is. But, she has regained some of her freedom. Early in our marriage, when we both still had youthful bodies, she was quite free being naked with me. Then as a consequence of having several pregnancies, etc. she became more self conscious and reserved. But now, she is again becoming more comfortable in her own skin!
            2. All of the above! Aside from being fully naked with each other in TMB, sleeping naked is one the greatest feelings.
            3. Nothing holds me back, except my efforts not to be  seen by others. In public we are always modest. For DW, the fear of an earthquake at night keeps her from sleeping with less on. Or the concern of someone coming to the door during the day, restricts her freedom as well.
            Under the stars Answered on August 14, 2019.
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              I was thinking about this question about nudity and I am glad you ask…

                1. Who enjoys being naked more, you or your spouse? Why?
                    1. Definitely me…I feel being nude is helping me more with body acceptance which I have an issue with.

                   

                   

               

                1. When and where do you enjoy this most? In TMB? When you sleep? In your house? On certain days (i.e. Naked Tuesday) On vacation? etc.
                    1. I work from home and lock the door then I stay au natural while working.  If I go out of the room, I put clothes back on.  I have slept in the buff before and my wife liked exploring like a kid in a candy store.  She has went buff one time too and wow…that was hot!  I had to behave myself and what a great sight to see when going to bed too!

                   

                   

               

                1. What holds you or your spouse back from being naked more? (or for some, from being more naked?)
                    1. The challenge is having our daughter around.  If she is not around, I still wear clothes.  I do take off my shirt if she is not around and not go full monty in order not to freak out the wife.  If she is not around, I will also go from the shower butt naked to seduce my wife.

                   

                   

               

               

              Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on August 14, 2019.
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                1. Who enjoys being naked more, you or your spouse? Why?

                  I do, but it has not always been that way.  I would say most of our married life of 38 yrs and counting, it was her.  However, in the last 5 years, I’m more ‘accepting’ of my body understanding we were made in God’s image.  A profound post by Job (old TMB) entitled, “Naked and Unshamed” help shape my attitude.  My bride on the other hand, will go from the shower/bath naked but right to put on a fresh pair of underwear.

                2. When and where do you enjoy this most? In TMB? When you sleep? In your house? On certain days (i.e. Naked Tuesday) On vacation? etc.

                  Mostly TMB and sleep most nights naked except if guests or grand-daughters are spending the night over.   When traveling and staying with family, I too am more modest and wear athletic shorts, but when vacationing, in our own room, back to ‘naked and unashamed’.

                3. What holds you or your spouse back from being naked more? (or for some, from being more naked?)

                  While I often will walk around the house naked, it is just following a shower looking for clothes or while shaving, etc.   I’m not there where I’m willing to just wear my birthday suite all the time or even most of the time even in the house.

                Double bed Answered on August 14, 2019.
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                  1.  Neither of us really enjoys being naked, but occasionally he will sleep naked and I cannot do that, so I guess it has to be him.
                  2.  Him during sleep, see #1.
                  3.  I don’t enjoy it, so there’s no reason to.  I don’t sleep naked because I have bad dreams and don’t sleep well.  There’s nothing enticing about it for me to want to just hang out naked, and I’d rather not sit on the furniture naked.  I don’t care whether or not either of us has clothes on for sex.  I don’t know what his reasons are.  I doubt he is interested in being naked amyway, but he is also more than 100# overweight.  He won’t even go swimming without a T-shirt on.  As far as comfort goes, we will both often hang out in our underwear and a T-shirt.
                  On the floor Answered on August 14, 2019.
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                    I don’t look at as a question of who enjoys it more. With us, it is probably a question of who is more comfortable. Personally, If it is just her and I in the house, I am likely to wander the whole house naked on occasion. I will go into the kitchen as soon as I wake, and make the coffee. It isn’t something I need clothes for. I prefer to air out after a shower, so clothes don’t stick to me(which was unfortunate for the maid at the hotel on one occasion, when she entered the room while I was napping on top of the covers after work one day. She really should not have entered that late in the day).

                    There aren’t any particular times I enjoy being naked, other than in bed with my wife. It is just that the other times I haven’t bothered to get dressed yet.

                    Fell out of ... Answered on August 14, 2019.
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                      I am the husband and I enjoy more than the wife, but we both go nude in the house during the day some, at least once or twice a week after dinner. Wife goes naked some too. I have slept nude for years, just enjoy it a lot.

                      Wife wears panties to bed and nothing else.

                      I wonder how many people go nude in their home?

                      California King Answered on August 15, 2019.
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                        Our level of nudity around the house definitely went up after we became empty-nesters!  Both my DW and I are comfortable being nude–although me more than her.  I look at clothes as a necessary evil as a part of the Fall.  If Adam and Eve had not sinned, we all would still be parading around in our birthday suits! LOL  We do have to be careful, as church people have been known to drop over unexpectedly, so I keep a spare pair of shorts and t-shirt handy to grab when the doorbell rings. 🙂

                        California King Answered on August 15, 2019.
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