Hey, wife here, just wondering why husbands can have a fascination or a desire for any kind of anal play? Obviously not judging, just wondering.
I couldn’t get past the ick factor and even when squeaky clean down there, with any type of penetration (being the colon) there is always that possibility of contamination and that is what *I* am concerned about. Not that my H has expressed any desire but its the one thing that is stopping me (besides possible health risks as i have hemmorroids sp?) but TRYING not to be TMI..i would always have to have an enema before any anal play.
Just wondering what the attraction is?
I know I am not a husband, but I can share the hints my husband has given. There is something thrilling and arousing to do something taboo or “naughty”. Not that we believe it is wrong, but because it’s not the norm.
One other perspective that has been shared with me…. there is something for a husband to “have” every part of their wife. There is no place that is closed off to him. She is wholly his.
We’ve both been rather intrigued by the though of AS but, in spite of lots of attempts, haven’t been able to make it happen. It’s basically a size incompatibility thing. But we (me!) love to use anal play and anal toys. I find that there is a definite added pleasure factor when I orgasm with some resistance in both openings.
I can’t think of anything more unpleasant and more of an arousal killer than an enema. If anything, that would probably cause a person to produce even more feces.
If a person has had a bowel movement fairly recently, there will be no fecal matter in the rectum – it will be farther up in the colon. I still insist that my husband wash his genitals with soap and water immediately following anal sex to prevent any bacteria from going up his urethra.
The anus has a lot of nerve endings that can produce sexually stimulating sensations. My most intense orgasms have occurred during anal sex.
Edited to add that I wouldn’t recommend having anal sex if you have hemorrhoids. I’ve never had them but it seems that being anally penetrated would aggravate them quite a bit.
Because it feels amazing when done correctly. Everyone, male or female has a natural reflex arc between their clitoris or glans and the anus. The anus is intricately tied into our orgasms. It is not very unusual for either women or men to be able to orgasm through anal stimulation alone. The ick factor is easily managed and is largely a mental block anyway. Not everyone wants to be involved with anal stimulation and that is fine. But many do.
I think that the draw to AS is about the angle of penetration. Unlike Doggy style, you don’t have to put all the pressure on the thighs to squat under her. Maybe its just that I’m taller than her. The draw is also about the tightness of the act, its well, incredible.
Personally I’m not interested. Hats of to those who like it and especially if it is good for both. I’m happy for you. If DW suddenly became interested, I might consider it.
It seems to me (speculation) that rear entry PIV, i.e. doggy style, would produce similar sensations and experience for the DH. But as been said, there are several major precautions to be taken.
Not a husband but for me it feels really good. Not as a steady diet but occasionally to change things up. I have to be warmed up and we have to go more slowly than we do with other things, plenty of lube yadda yadda. But it does feel intense and when paired with clitoral stimulation leads to some great orgasms. I’m not in my husbands mind but he has shared that he likes how tight it feels, the “taboo” or not the norm factor and that no part of my body is “off limits” to him. We have also never used a condom or done an enema and never had any issues (me or him).
Like others have said, my DH has mentioned the “taboo” factor and it just being another way to have sex, so why not! He didn’t always think of it as a possibility, but when we married and he was free to explore within marriage, it was just a given that it was something we could and would try! Turns out we like it 🙂
Interesting….anal sex. The temptation to try it has always been there. What do I do? That led me to read about it and to search more on it . My research led me to read from Christian writers and medical science.
I wish I could share the knowledge I acquired here but I want to pause on it. I wish this site can be more tolerable to views from all folks here, that makes us learn more.