Wife’s favorite activities?

    To echo the question for husbands…

    Wives:

    What are your favorite things (thing meaning position, act, etc.) to do TO/WITH your husband in TMB?

    What is something you would love to do to/with him that he won’t do?

    What are your favorite things he does to/with you?

    Hammock Asked on July 30, 2020 in Activities & Items .
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      I love touch.   My husband gives the best back scratches.  I love the way he massages my butt with little squeezes that release the tension there.  There is nothing like it.

      Double bed Answered on July 30, 2020.
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        My husband turned the questions on me last night and these were my answers:

        1) I like to do things that surprise or shock him in that moment…it can really be anything, it just has to be unexpected by him.

        2) There is nothing I want to do that he won’t do.

        3) My favorite thing is a certain postion, he describes is as scissor-like, I describe it like an ‘X’, because it stimulates things well, and because it’s the position he can stimulate the A-spot.

        Under the stars Answered on July 30, 2020.

        @SC Could you provide a tame illustration link of the X position?

        on July 30, 2020.

        Since I am not sure if there’s a name for it, I tried searching for one, and I couldn’t find anything. To me, Christian friendly sex positions is a joke and just look like blobs to me. I will try to describe how we get in that position:

        1. You start in the typical missionary position, with her legs on the outside.

        2. He turns 45 to 90 degree to the side (his right/her left works the best for us, but my husband says it may depend on which side the penis angles when erect, so that he goes to the opposite side of the angle, where it will point more upward if on his side….i.e. if it angles left, go to his right, etc)

        3. As he is turning, his left leg goes over the top of her right leg. And then his right leg goes underneath her right leg (she will have to lift her right leg to put it over his right leg.)  [Where he gets the ‘scissor-like description.]

        4. This position puts his hips at an angle (around 45 degrees from bed).

        5. Putting some pillows under his chest,to raise the chest and for support, also lowers the hips for deeper penetration.

        6. If he pulls his left knee up close to her right side (rather than keeping it straight) allows for more control and maybe even deeper penetration.

         

        Other tips/cautions: This position does put extra pressure on her left hip. It gives her hands access to his bottom, testis and perineum (if knee is pulled up.) He has a view of her face and breasts. He can also use his left hand to hold/stimulate the breast.

        When in this position, the top view would look like an ‘X’ (45 deg.) or ‘+’ (90 deg.)…. where I get the ‘X’ description.

         

        edited to add the italicized parts

        on July 30, 2020.

        Thanks for the excellent description of the position! We’ve used the position, just didn’t know what it was called. Thanks!

        on July 31, 2020.

        Apparently we don’t know what it is called either!   😀

        on July 31, 2020.

        That sounds like a great position!  We’ll have to try it.  We’ve been working on finding a position that reaches the A spot, as that is supposed to be the most amazing place to be stimulated 🙂

        Here is one that is supposed to be good for some couples:

        https://www.christianfriendlysexpositions.com/big-l/

        5 days ago.

        I think that the name of that crazy music band ‘Scissor Sisters’ refers to this position, but of course they have a twisted idea behind the meaning. Unfortunately they had a song that was very sticky ‘I don’t feel like dancing’. I stopped listening to the group when I realized the message behind the name’s group.

        3 days ago.
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          Favorite to do with I guess would be piv, position isn’t as important to me as attitudes and dispositions (confident as opposed to tentative, telling as opposed to asking, being obviously turned on and verbally appreciative).

          There isn’t much I would like that he doesn’t/wouldn’t do.  Maybe some things not as often as I’d like but he’s pretty much up for anything.  One thing I’d love is more pda from him.  Not over the top making out or groping or anything inappropriate,  and not in a setting where it would be awkward or uncomfortable, just an arm around my shoulders, coming to sit close to me on the couch at friends houses, a kiss in passing etc.   Little things that show he’s attracted to me and wants to show it.  He’s very affectionate and unreserved at home but for some reason having him a little less reserved other places would do good things for me.

          Favorite thing for him to do with me is oral sex on me.

          On the floor Answered on July 30, 2020.
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            Favorite things: When he kisses and nibbles on my back, neck, arms, legs

            I would love it if he would be more verbal during sex, doesn’t have to be necessarily dirty talk, but telling me what he is feeling, that he desires me, that things feel good

            I really enjoy when after I have had an orgasm from manual or OS, he comes inside me, and let’s go, let’s me see his passion.  After my first orgasm, I crave having his penis inside me.  I love when he holds me tightly, kisses me passionately, looks me in the eyes

            On the floor Answered on July 30, 2020.
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              1- I like all of it

              2-What i crave most is a good massage. I don’t know if he wouldn’t do it but i don’t ask as he has chronic pretty severe pain and i don’t want to “take” any energy from him in any way. i was laying in bed this morning dreaming of getting a good massage but that would cost $$

              3-i love OS the most on me.

              Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on July 30, 2020.
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                Once again agreeing with ToP–love the PDAs he does, would love more. I love making him weak in the knees.

                (I think I answered in reverse.)

                Under the stars Answered on July 30, 2020.
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                  Not so many replies in this question as in the equivalent for husbands.

                  But good to see that OS is one of the favs. on both sides. Men performing it, and women receiving it. Happy givers and happy receivers.

                  My mouth just starter watering with just thinking about it.

                   

                  Hammock Answered 6 days ago.
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                    My wife’s answers (not a member):

                    What are your favorite things (thing meaning position, act, etc.) to do TO/WITH your husband in TMB?
                    Caress his chest, butt and legs. Stroke his penis. I love that it gets big and hard.

                    What is something you would love to do to/with him that he won’t do?
                    Have absolute freedom to say yes or no to sex when he initiates without any upset or disappointed feelings. It’s not for long, we usually try again within 12-24 hours.

                    What are your favorite things he does to/with you?
                    When he caress my hair, arms, back, butt and legs, fingers my vulva and when he is on top and has his penis deep inside me.

                    Hammock Answered 3 days ago.
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