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by SeekingChange
Fri Oct 22, 2021 7:24 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 10/22/21 - Do you or your spouse have a sexual "dog whistle" or trigger?
Replies: 5
Views: 243

Re: 10/22/21 - Do you or your spouse have a sexual "dog whistle" or trigger?

No, I don't have one. And I can't think of any specifics with him, other than "breath" ;) if we are both breathing he's likey in the mood. It's safe to say, he's rarely not in the mood....but I will try to remember to ask him later.
by SeekingChange
Fri Oct 22, 2021 7:17 am
Forum: Board Announcements
Topic: Anonymity for the Anonymous
Replies: 7
Views: 246

Re: Anonymity for the Anonymous

Please consider requiring login to read all sections. I am not so concerned about folks here reading my posts that might be sensitive at home, but the fact that many sections are open for anyone or anything to read, including internet archive sites. I have no control over this, but my understanding...
by SeekingChange
Fri Oct 22, 2021 6:57 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: 12 T's by Laura M Brotherson
Replies: 5
Views: 180

Re: 12 T's by Laura M Brotherson

My initial thoughts.... First, with #1, "transforming" is a process, aka it takes time. We have to be okay with our process, and the process in others, and we have to learn to "ride the waves" through the transformation rather than miss out on life and be miserable waiting for &q...
by SeekingChange
Thu Oct 21, 2021 10:40 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 10/21/2021 - If you could turn back the hands of time, what decision of yours would you make differently?
Replies: 10
Views: 268

Re: 10/21/2021 - If you could turn back the hands of time, what decision of yours would you make differently?

Find help or guidance early on our marriage rather than trying to handle it on our own and going further down the wrong path.
by SeekingChange
Wed Oct 20, 2021 6:27 pm
Forum: Parenting Practice - babies & pre-school
Topic: How do/did you maintain sex, during children years?
Replies: 11
Views: 354

Re: How do/did you maintain sex, during children years?

Pearl, praying for you. There are times I wish I could go back just to enjoy my kids, but really, it is an exhausting time, and to add marriage troubles on it, is like a perfect storm. Yet, so many go through it, that God must have a plan in all of it...the Refiner's fire. Hang in there mama! {hugs}
by SeekingChange
Wed Oct 20, 2021 2:18 pm
Forum: The Theology of Sex
Topic: Theology, attitude, or both? - some thoughts.
Replies: 7
Views: 217

Re: Theology, attitude, or both? - some thoughts.

It doesn't say back off so they can't slap you again. It also doesn't say to stand there and continue to let them beat you. By Jesus' example, more than once He got away when the religious leaders were after Him. He also did some straight up calling out on certain attitudes. He made a whip and turn...
by SeekingChange
Wed Oct 20, 2021 1:47 pm
Forum: On-Topic Chit-Chat
Topic: Maintaining a sex life with teens in the house.
Replies: 8
Views: 217

Re: Maintaining a sex life with teens in the house.

The most difficult thing with teens was the fact they stayed up later than we do/did. It's easier because they are more self-sufficient and putting them to bed is/was no longer our responsibility. What helped me/us, others have mentioned. 1. Be okay with them knowing mom & dad have sex. And have...
by SeekingChange
Wed Oct 20, 2021 12:07 pm
Forum: Orgasm & Sex Drive
Topic: Why do I crave sex or to be intimate?
Replies: 10
Views: 330

Re: Why do I crave sex or to be intimate?

@SOA makes some good points! Realizing the differences can go a long way in accepting each individuals sexual uniqueness. How can we shift the initiator role to her? If she's up to actually improving your sex life, I know one idea I have seen multiple times is a couple splits up the days they are re...
by SeekingChange
Wed Oct 20, 2021 8:04 am
Forum: On-Topic Chit-Chat
Topic: Maintaining a sex life with teens in the house.
Replies: 8
Views: 217

Maintaining a sex life with teens in the house.

I asked about maintaining sex with having younger children here , and if you have ever gotten to the place from having children to having teenagers, you know it's a whole different ball game! For me, teenagers made some aspects of maintaining a sex life easier, but also more difficult. At one point,...
by SeekingChange
Wed Oct 20, 2021 7:28 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 10/20/2021 - What word do you prefer to use to describe the "action" of intercourse?
Replies: 16
Views: 702

Re: 10/20/2021 - What word do you prefer to use to describe the "action" of intercourse?

This is still confusing for me. :lol: In general, we refer to IC as sex or f***. If you are looking for synonyms we use to describe what the actual action is... I don't think I ever use words to describe the action, other than "scratch an itch" :lol: Apparently I use it enough that he used...

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