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by PaulB
Mon Jun 07, 2021 11:22 am
Forum: Activities & Items
Topic: Men's Toy Review: suction and vibration device (positive!)
Replies: 6
Views: 1085

Re: Men's Toy Review: suction and vibration device (positive!)

Given the odd characters in the URL, I wonder if they are trying to skirt some rule? Might be why the link keeps going bad.
by PaulB
Mon Jun 07, 2021 11:17 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 06/07/2021 - Type of Residence?
Replies: 22
Views: 813

Re: 06/07/2021 - Type of Residence?

RV. Building a home around it. We are on ten acres shared with family. Love the location, especially having grandkids so close. Community is awesome when it's good, and that is what we have. It will be nice to have a bit more room when we get the house opened up. Pretty much what I would chose if I...
by PaulB
Sun Jun 06, 2021 5:49 pm
Forum: Activities & Items
Topic: Arousal Cream
Replies: 5
Views: 380

Re: Arousal Cream

@PaulB, can you share more what that actually does? It is supposed to increase blood flow to the area. So it's a matter of physical arousal. Lori says it does that. It is slightly warming, but not as much as those that use menthol or some mint, which are common. There are also prescription compound...
by PaulB
Sun Jun 06, 2021 4:41 pm
Forum: Activities & Items
Topic: Arousal Cream
Replies: 5
Views: 380

Arousal Cream

I see there are now a large number of female arousal creams on the market.

Curious what folks here have tried. What worked, what worked really well, and what was worthless?

BTW, our vote would be for Zestra. Pricey compared to many others - is that because it's better?
by PaulB
Sun Jun 06, 2021 4:31 pm
Forum: Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?
Topic: Are there any ways to satisfy my sexual appetite if my husband doesn’t want sex as often?
Replies: 11
Views: 1022

Re: Are there any ways to satisfy my sexual appetite if my husband doesn’t want sex as often?

I would say the best option is to masturbate with him there with you. It helps keep your mind where it should be, and it makes him aware of how much more sex you would really like. It might even get him to offer to lend a hand.

So talk with him and ask if he is okay with you doing that.
by PaulB
Mon May 24, 2021 11:09 am
Forum: Male Orgasm Difficulties/Erectile Dysfunction
Topic: What about circumcision?
Replies: 63
Views: 5298

Re: What about circumcision?

The majority of men in the world (two-thirds) are NOT circumcised. And very few have the problems that have been mentioned here. The problem is we live in a country where most men have been cut, and we don't understand how to care for an intact penis. So most of the problems are because of parental...
by PaulB
Mon May 24, 2021 10:57 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 05/24/2021 - Mirrors?
Replies: 27
Views: 2144

Re: 05/24/2021 - Mirrors?

Many years ago we put mirror tiles on the wall next to our bed. We both enjoyed it.

Never had one over the bed. That sounds like fun, but only if it's been installed really well and you live where there is zero chance of an earthquake! :o
by PaulB
Sun May 23, 2021 4:51 pm
Forum: Orgasm & Sex Drive
Topic: Cock Rings
Replies: 77
Views: 7330

Re: Cock Rings

I have lots of experience with cock rings. I have never and will never use the silicone rubber band type. Long ago someone told me about the metal ones and different ways you could go about finding the right size for you. Of course, if you get one too small you have a very embarrassing and very rea...
by PaulB
Mon May 17, 2021 12:24 pm
Forum: The Science of Sex
Topic: All the Sex you could Possibly Want!
Replies: 36
Views: 3350

Re: All the Sex you could Possibly Want!

SLS, you make a good point. If the quality is good, Quantity becomes less of an issue. Absolutely. When you're starving, quality is nice but unnecessary and almost not considered. You would take more of horrible food than a little bit of really great food. You get hungry enough and those grubs star...
by PaulB
Mon May 17, 2021 12:18 pm
Forum: The Science of Sex
Topic: All the Sex you could Possibly Want!
Replies: 36
Views: 3350

Re: All the Sex you could Possibly Want!

One of the things I see as a result of this scenario is if the HD spouse is getting all the sex they want, what incentive is there to work on some of the things that the LD spouse needs or wants? I don't see this fixing much of anything. The best scenario is for both the HD and LD spouse to work to...

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