1. which one is your setting? With sex, YES. In life or under pressure, say "no" first, then ask questions if unsure. :? 2. What is your spouse and which one did you put them in? I think she's sexually in a more neutral or the yes camp...but I'm not sure how much of that is menopause sinc...

First, I will state a lack of clarity on what "mode of sexual communication style" is confuses me, because I am not sure on exactly what you are talking about or looking for, and almost kept me from answering. SC, did you want to be a lawyer in another life...or is this clarification mode...

Welcome to TMB! Glad you're here. I had three boys myself and now have 2 teen girls in the house...I'll take the boys back any day!

Someone suggested there are three modes of sexual communication style. Each of us has a default, a go-to. Default: Yes...neutral...no 1. which one is your setting? 2. What is your spouse and which one did you put them in? 3. What does that mean for your relationship? 4. Is it the same as your natura...

Well, it probably would’ve been perfect for the current state we’ve been in for the last year (figuratively and literally); we met online.

Otherwise, the first place we physically met was at a Big Boy for dessert and conversation.

Take a listen to the “Honeymoon” & “Wedding Night” episodes of Sexy Marriage Radio with Corey Allan. Episodes #95 & 190.

I heard this comment the other day, and it made me take pause and consider if there's any validity to it: "When you grow up without something, the lack of it is always with you, even when you finally have it." [/color][/i][/b] Have you seen this true in your, or your spouse's, life? Does ...

Not sure. Truthfully, I haven't had anyone really close to me die but there will probably come a day in the next 1-12 years where that will happen.

Brynna wrote: ↑Mon Apr 19, 2021 9:27 am Another fond memory is the anniversary trip we took, the first time ever, and spending a couple nights by ourselves. The first time in 20 years that DH and I spent nights without any children under the same roof.

Good for you!!! Every couple needs to do that!!!

I don't like the term obligatory sex. While it's true I am lower drive and have responsive desire, I in no way see it as an "obligation". I choose to serve my husband with love and enthusiasm. I enjoy those "just for him" times almost as much as as the other times I don't like i...