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by Olorin
Tue Jul 27, 2021 4:45 am
Forum: Oral Sex
Topic: Nice article on Oral Sex
Replies: 2
Views: 122

Re: Nice article on Oral Sex

Thanks for this. I will make a time for DW and I to read this together.
by Olorin
Tue Jul 27, 2021 4:41 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: One thing you really want to try...
Replies: 7
Views: 280

Re: One thing you really want to try...

As stated above, I have no problem asking DW to try things; the main issue is her comfort level with the suggested activities. For example, I would love for to give/receive OS, but she is still uncomfortable with both, but we are still trying! As I learned from 'Galaxy Quest', 'Never give up, never ...
by Olorin
Tue Jul 27, 2021 4:27 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 07/26/2021 - Relive an Experience?
Replies: 6
Views: 164

Re: 07/26/2021 - Relive an Experience?

There are many experiences that would be interesting to relive. I will provide the top two that come to mind since I can't pick one. I would love to see 'Star Wars' again for this first time. It was a great departure from any movie I had ever seen in terms of story, special effects, music. etc. I sa...
by Olorin
Tue Jul 27, 2021 4:21 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 07/27/21 - What is one of your favorite smells?
Replies: 4
Views: 49

Re: 07/27/21 - What is one of your favorite smells?

My 'G - rated' answer is the smell of cut grass. I enjoyed cutting grass in my youth and would do this for my parent's house as well as my grandmother's house. After cutting my grandmother's lawn, she would often fix me a BLT made with a pound of bacon and lots of tomatos. Afterwards, we would somet...
by Olorin
Mon Jul 26, 2021 3:03 am
Forum: Intercourse (PIV) & Positions
Topic: How many positions on average do you try in a session or night?
Replies: 13
Views: 329

Re: How many positions on average do you try in a session or night?

One: DW gets the most pleasure from missionary and she finds other positions are not comfortable for her. Also, she also finds changing positions interrupts the flow of the events too much for her liking.
by Olorin
Fri Jul 23, 2021 4:15 am
Forum: The Theology of Sex
Topic: To whom much is given
Replies: 17
Views: 558

Re: To whom much is given

NWNL hit it pretty much on the head. The only other point I would add is that God does give us 'challenges' that he knows we need to grow closer to Him. It may be difficult to know why specific problems are given to specific people/couples, but I think the reasons for our particular trials will be c...
by Olorin
Fri Jul 23, 2021 4:05 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: How has your attitude changed over the years?
Replies: 5
Views: 235

Re: How has your attitude changed over the years?

Interesting question. My attitude about sex has not changed too much; I was a pretty sex-positive person prior to marriage, and that has not changed. What changed was my attitude toward solving the desire mis-match problem between DW and I. I am HD, DW is LD). To address this issue we bought many, m...
by Olorin
Thu Jul 22, 2021 4:02 am
Forum: Other Non-sexual Marriage Issues
Topic: Death and a Surviving Spouse
Replies: 13
Views: 374

Re: Death and a Surviving Spouse

Oldbear, congrats on your anniversary! DW and I will be celebrating our 30th this year. Lots of great stuff in your post. After experiencing all the hard work it took to clear out the residences of our parents (after they had to move to assisted living or passed on), I plan on starting to simplify o...
by Olorin
Thu Jul 22, 2021 3:04 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: What are you intentional about giving your partner...
Replies: 7
Views: 433

Re: What are you intentional about giving your partner...

Before sex I make sure I am clean, I shave, and trim my finger nails. To set the atmosphere, I light candles and turn on the LED lighting installed behind the bed. (We usually make love in the early morning so it is generally dark outside). If it is cold in the bedroom, during the prep time I make s...
by Olorin
Wed Jul 21, 2021 3:41 am
Forum: Activities & Items
Topic: Sex Toys-Top 3 and Bottom 3
Replies: 11
Views: 525

Re: Sex Toys-Top 3 and Bottom 3

1. The Magic Wand by Body Wand. This is the only toy that can give my wife an orgasm. And it seems that other wands don't work as well as the one made by 'Body Wand'. There are no 2nd and 3rd place toys here since everything else we have tried thus far (and we have tried many) don't really do much f...

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