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DW loves cowgirl but knees can't handle it

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Andrew
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DW loves cowgirl but knees can't handle it

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My wife's favorite position is cowgirl, but sadly that's off the table right now.

I'm trying to get to the bottom of why it is her favorite, and I think it has to do with her being able to put me in the right spot.

Are there any similar positions that put her in control without her having to kneel, squat or bend her legs?
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Re: DW loves cowgirl but knees can't handle it

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I haven't tried this so I don't know the stress it would put on knees, but would you laying on a weight bench and her straddling with more outstretched legs be worth a try?
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Re: DW loves cowgirl but knees can't handle it

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The knees are the second thing to go......or is it the memory? I forget. :)
You might try doing cowgirl, with you laying on a bench, and her more or less standing, straddled over you. The straighter my DW's knees are, the easier it is on her knees, so that's what we do. It also keeps her from getting a charlie-horse like she often did when I was just laying on the bed.

Doesn't matter why it's her favorite, but since it seems to be, pursue it, and do a little experimenting!
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Re: DW loves cowgirl but knees can't handle it

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Another idea is to position an ottoman (must be fairly narrow) in front of a sofa and get into a comfortable position for her to straddle you and the ottoman, yet giving you a comfortable position. Hey! Have fun trying a few ideas!
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Re: DW loves cowgirl but knees can't handle it

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Some great ideas already. Got a picnic bench? Liberator furniture could be a nice option also.
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Re: DW loves cowgirl but knees can't handle it

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I've suggested these (or a chair for a face to face lap dance position) but she thinks this will still put a strain on her knees because she'll have to bounce up and down (she doesn't really grind as much as some women describe).

I figured these positions would get mentioned and I'd love to try them, but I don't know if they'll help for her knees.

I wanted to suggest standing doggy with her leaning on the wall so she could push back on me, but she prefers face to face positions. The angle of penetration and my curvature (upwards) makes face to face more pleasurable than reverse positions.
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Re: DW loves cowgirl but knees can't handle it

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Andrew wrote: Thu Jun 10, 2021 1:11 pm I wanted to suggest standing doggy with her leaning on the wall so she could push back on me, but she prefers face to face positions. The angle of penetration and my curvature (upwards) makes face to face more pleasurable than reverse positions.
Ok, how about putting a mirror in front or beside you so that you can look into each other’s eyes in that position?
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Re: DW loves cowgirl but knees can't handle it

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This is a position we enjoy. It can also be done on your backs and your legs are entwined like scissors. https://www.christianfriendlysexpositio ... risscross/
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