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04/08/2021 - Lack of sight or sound during sex?

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04/08/2021 - Lack of sight or sound during sex?

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If every time you had sex you had to lose either your sense of sight or sense of sound, which would you choose to lose?
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intrepides96 wrote: Thu Apr 08, 2021 8:50 am If every time you had sex you had to lose either your sense of sight or sense of sound, which would you choose to lose?
Great question. I'd say sight because I still want to hear my aroused wife AND I find it rather erotic to be blindfolded and not know what's coming...plus all the other senses would be more heightened.
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intrepides96 wrote: Thu Apr 08, 2021 8:50 am If every time you had sex you had to lose either your sense of sight or sense of sound, which would you choose to lose?
I would choose sense of sound.
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Re: 04/08/2021 - Lack of sight or sound during sex?

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Is this a temporary loss during the sexual encounter?

I think I would choose sound, because that seems to be the most distracting, and it's harder to control blocking it out.
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Re: 04/08/2021 - Lack of sight or sound during sex?

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I'll choose the loss of sound. Although, I usually keep my eyes shut, I do keep an eye on DH's face, because I rely on that to know where he is 'in the game'. I guess I would be fairly lost without that.
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Re: 04/08/2021 - Lack of sight or sound during sex?

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Hard to say - I love to watch DH’s face when he’s in the throes of it. I’d have to choose to give up sight though because talking and some of the things he says to me are key elements of my path to an O.
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Re: 04/08/2021 - Lack of sight or sound during sex?

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I would say sight because we make love in the dark plenty of times. Also, her moans and groans are what turn me on even more, so I definitely wouldn't want to lose sound.
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Re: 04/08/2021 - Lack of sight or sound during sex?

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I would rather be without sound.

While I have my eyes closed as I'm reaching O, I would not want to be without sight completely. I enjoy being able to look into dh's eyes throughout the encounter. I also like to see his face when he O's.
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We’ve had encounters with both, and I’ve found both are arousing. When staying over other relatives houses or having family stay at our home the need to be silent was a turn on. Being blindfolded as mentioned above has also been arousing in the past. If I had to choose, I would say sight. Playing with sensory overload and heightening the other 4 senses is amazing for me personally.


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Re: 04/08/2021 - Lack of sight or sound during sex?

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I would choose to give up sound rather than sight. All senses are very valuable anytime but especially during love making but I believe I would choose sound over sight.
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