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04/06/21 - Do you do PDA?

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Re: 04/06/21 - Do you do PDA?

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Yes, we enjoy PDA all the time, even at church (after, not during :D ). I may have to stay for a meeting after, one she doesn't need to attend, and we will kiss before she leaves. We also hold hands in public and sometimes I'll give a pat on the backside. I am more likely to initiate the display the display, which is always tactful. I don't want to do something that will make her feel uncomfortable.
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Re: 04/06/21 - Do you do PDA?

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Yes, we do. Normally just hand holding. My wife will initiate that. If there are furtive gropes or touches, those are usually initiated by me. If we are in the house, my wife will initiate those as well, which is just PDA in front of the kids.
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Re: 04/06/21 - Do you do PDA?

Post by Brynna »

In public, we hold hands. I am often cuddled up to DH while sitting in church. We also usually hold hands to pray, regardless where we are. We generally don't do any kissing in public.

We kiss at home and touch each other more. While sitting on the couch, we are usually cuddled up quite closely. I will inconspicuously brush up against him and do things like that. It's me that initiates most. However, when I don't, he often does. He is more worried about being 'caught' than I am, and he does not take risks. He is very concerned about grossing the children out, and I am not as much. They don't need to see us fondling each other, but they are used to us cuddling, hugging, kissing, etc.
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Re: 04/06/21 - Do you do PDA?

Post by Irnmyk »

We do the hand holding in public - and always during prayer, home, church, public, wherever.

We sit close in church, either of us will put an arm around the other from time to time. We'll sneak the occasional 'rub of the leg' or something of the sort from time to time, but not on a regular basis, and ALWAYS surreptitiously.

We do kiss in public - more like as said above, the good bye "smack" if we are meeting up or parting company, but never a full fledged "Lip Lock".

She is a fairly private person, so I would never do something in public that would deliberately embarrass her, but I will smack her on the butt on a 'if I can get away with it" basis. She does like that when she knows that she isn't being put in an embarrassing position.

This is a Public Display thread. In private....... all bets are off.
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Re: 04/06/21 - Do you do PDA?

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Like many others. Even in our 60’s holding hands all the time and during prayer. :roll:
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Re: 04/06/21 - Do you do PDA?

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We’re not a big PDA couple, although we usually hold hands or put an arm around the waist. I like to sit close to him in public, but not enough to look like we’re snuggling on the couch at home. He’ll usually put his hand on my thigh if we’re riding in the car together, and a quick kiss hi/bye if it’s not a highly public situation with an audience.
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Re: 04/06/21 - Do you do PDA?

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We don't do a lot of PDA. We will hold hands while walking around and give each other small kisses when coming and going. More commonly now, I will put my arm through his and hold his bicep lightly. He will also many times put his hand on my elbow gently as we are walking around, I am unsteady on my feet many times due to medical reasons and a fall could be quite bad. So while these are loving gestures, they are also meant to keep my klutzy self on my feet. :lol: :shock:

He will also discreetly do the occasional pat to my bottom or light boob touch when we are out.
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Re: 04/06/21 - Do you do PDA?

Post by SeekingChange »

LovingHimAlways wrote: Wed Apr 07, 2021 7:05 am I will put my arm through his and hold his bicep lightly.
This is one of my favorite "holds".....I do love his arms! ::luv
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Re: 04/06/21 - Do you do PDA?

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SeekingChange wrote: Wed Apr 07, 2021 7:55 am
LovingHimAlways wrote: I will put my arm through his and hold his bicep lightly.
This is one of my favorite "holds".....I do love his arms! ::luv
I love it too. The closeness and protective feel of it is even hotter than the hand holding, imo ::luv
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Re: 04/06/21 - Do you do PDA?

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@SeekingChange that is one of my favorite holds when you do that to me as well! And it's one of my biceps favorite holds also! 😉
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