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04/13/21 - Hickeys....yeah or nay?

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04/13/21 - Hickeys....yeah or nay?

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Have you ever received a hickey? Have you given one?

What's your general thoughts towards them?
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Re: 04/13/21 - Hickeys....yeah or nay?

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My wife gave me a couple before we got married, a few really bad ones. i didn't even realize it was happening.

Now after 30 years, it would be bragging rights!
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Re: 04/13/21 - Hickeys....yeah or nay?

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Nay. I would prefer a deep french kiss from DW where I feel it in my groin. Hickeys don't do that for me.
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Re: 04/13/21 - Hickeys....yeah or nay?

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I have given and received them, though not very often. I think hickies are more for unmarried couples that can't go all the way, which is why I haven't given and received that many.
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Re: 04/13/21 - Hickeys....yeah or nay?

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Haven't done that since high school.
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Re: 04/13/21 - Hickeys....yeah or nay?

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I agree it's more about pre-sexual play and for us stopped mostly after marriage. Still have gotten and given some accidentally since marriage when things got really heated.

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Re: 04/13/21 - Hickeys....yeah or nay?

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Yes, I've given and received some.

DW hasn't been too fond of them as a few have been on the objects of affection which only I can see or have access to and left her a little sore and bruised. :lol: ' She has also not wanted to let me "mark my territory" so her family might see that she got in a fight with a vacuum. :lol:
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Re: 04/13/21 - Hickeys....yeah or nay?

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I would say that if we do them, they are done more out of "passionate fun", than being "lost in passion". And we try to give them in places that only we will know and see.

I personally don't care to see them on others, or my own, neck. I don't really agree with this is a "pre-sex" activity in these days. It seems more like a "youth" thing to me. And my married children are still in their "youth".
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Re: 04/13/21 - Hickeys....yeah or nay?

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Neither DH or I have ever received one. Years ago, I accidentally gave one to my cute little brother. I had no idea what it was, my mom almost came unglued. That's the only experience I have had with it, and neither DH nor I are interested in it now.
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Re: 04/13/21 - Hickeys....yeah or nay?

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We don't give any on the neck, but in areas only visible to each other, it's a fun thing.
He doesn't bruise very easily so he knows when I'm trying to leave my mark & it will usually lead to a playful wrestling battle.
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