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04/13/21 - Hickeys....yeah or nay?

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04/13/21 - Hickeys....yeah or nay?

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Have you ever received a hickey? Have you given one?

What's your general thoughts towards them?
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benny wrote: Tue Apr 13, 2021 7:04 am I agree it's more about pre-sexual play and for us stopped mostly after marriage. Still have gotten and given some accidentally since marriage when things got really heated.

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I would agree that is more of a youthful, pre-marriage thing.

Early in marriage during sex play, dh gave me one or two, in areas that no one else can see.
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Nay.
It's been a long time since high school
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Yeah this is a bad thread, since reading it I've been humming that song about Sandra Dee from grease. I guess it takes me back to HS lol. The worse part is I didn't even like that movie lol

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I think he gave me a hickey once before we were married. I'm dark skinned though so you couldn't really tell. It just felt a little sore.
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Gave and received in high school. Being 51 now, I think they would be ridiculous to have, but that is my opinion. :D
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Even in high school I remember thinking they were a bit of a mystery to me. :roll:
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Re: 04/13/21 - Hickeys....yeah or nay?

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I agree that they are a young people thing, but having given and received them in the past, I can’t imagine why it seemed like a good idea.😉
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Hiswifeagain wrote: Thu Apr 15, 2021 6:20 pmI can’t imagine why it seemed like a good idea.😉
It's just about all that pent up desire and not being able to completely fulfill it. You go overboard in your kissing a bit. ;) It is exposure to skin with your mouth. At a younger age that's amazing to your body.

I do wonder if girls give them at the same measure boys seem to give.
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We haven't done this for several years, but we were beyond our "youth".

When in the mood, the sucking sensation on the neck feels good and is kind of erotic...I just don't care for the mark and feeling the need to hide it.

I think they can be fun to give. I tend to give them when I am being playful. It's a reminder of our time together, and it may be a little thrilling and funny to put him in a position of being questioned by our kids (or others) if they happen to see it.....because I usually give them where clothes will cover, but if he forgets and goes shirtless, or a tanktop doesn't quite do the job, well.... ;)

He's only had to preach with a hickey on his neck once :lol:
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Re: 04/13/21 - Hickeys....yeah or nay?

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SeekingChange wrote: Fri Apr 16, 2021 6:55 am
He's only had to preach with a hickey on his neck once :lol:
Oh my word, this made me laugh out loud. I’m not sure what my DH would think of that. Might be proud and might be horrified! I’ll have to ask. :lol:
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