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QOTD-12-30-2020-First sexual act after marriage?

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What was the first overtly sexual act (the kissing at the altar doesn't count) you did with your spouse after you got married and how long after the "I do's" did it occur? Fondling of breasts? Oral sex? Manual stimulation of genitals? Intercourse? etc.
For me it was after the reception when we went back to her apartment for the wedding night. As soon as I put her down after carrying her over the threshold I took hold of her lovely behind. Part of me wanted to just pull up her dress and have her against the wall but my more romantic side prevailed and it worked out better to wait and enjoy a slower start.
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First thing we did was help her out of the wedding dress into her dress to leave the church. I got to see the sexy under garments she had on. We then left the church for “our” apartment. We made out while going up the stairs going through the apartment to our bed room while helping each other getting. undressed. We ended up in bed naked. I was able to kiss most of her upper half . We then slowly put my penis into her vagina as we had heard the first time would be tight and painful. It was but we were successful.
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I forgot to add the changing to leave was at the end of the reception and we snuck out. The drive to our home was about 20 minutes. We really could not do much or be close to each other in my car - Ford tempo with manual transmission. But once we got past the door we started up.
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If I remember correctly, it was about an hour after leaving the reception. We stopped at the house to get our luggage and some honeymoon stuff and drove 30 minutes to the first night hotel. I don’t think I touched her until we got to our room.

Her dream was to shower and clean up alone and put on her honeymoon lingerie. We went into the bathroom to chk out the jacuzzi for two and walk-in shower and while she was at the mirror, I came up behind her with a hug and kisses. Apparently, my kisses on the back of her neck and  touches to her body and breasts got her furnace so hot that she let go of that dream. :lol:  I just wanted to see how far I could push and tease her. Apparently, I was that good or more likely, she was that horny. :D  (That was when she was peri menopausal.)  She quickly decided to change into her lingerie for the big “reveal”....she still says I get the same face when I see her boobies, er....I mean breasts. :lol:
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There is nothing like seeing your wife's breasts for the first time....or the second time....or the 100,000th time. :-)
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Come on man!  You expect me to remember what happened 34 years  ago.  First of all, there were a bunch of jokesters at  our wedding and reception.  They had   lifted my car up on blocks so it couldn't go anywhere, smeared Vaseline all over the windows, the worst being the windshield.  Empty pop cans were attached everywhere.  A cheese block was put on the engine!  This was in the middle of winter in Minnesota!! Not good,  We had a three hour drive to our hotel once we finally got going. I am sure I was NOT in a good mood with all the delays and we had to stop several times to wipe off the Vaseline.  Once we got to the hotel, it was pretty late.  Both DW and I were virgins but she was determined we were going to have sex.  So, we took it slow  with lots of foreplay and we did have PIV intercourse that night, maybe several times, I don't recall exactly.  For the newly marrieds out there, the sex really does get better with age as you practice and learn further about each other's bodies,  Looking back at our first night together, it was kind of a ho-hum evening, certainly not what is portrayed by Hollywood, but hey, we are still married and going strong  and getting stronger after 34 years! Most of Hollywood marriages don't last three years.

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We drove almost 3 hours to get to our honeymoon spot. Got to a nice hotel. And, had 45 seconds of PIV sex and we were done, both of us were pretty tired!
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We tried for 2 days to have sex, but it wasn't happening...so night 3 was our night...but i suppose we were trying to be overtly sexual on night one...
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We headed home after the reception (literally 1/2 mile away). It was late afternoon and we went to bed with fondling, kissing, caressing, a little bit of oral and then PIV. It was delicious.
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It was a 2:00 wedding, a long reception, cleaning up the vehicle (which may not have been as bad as yours @GG, but the shaving cream baked on the hood ruined the paint job, plus water balloons on the floor, vaseline on the handles and maybe with the saran wrap around the steering wheel, so we were driving off with an angry husband about his truck and me, humilated and angry at his behavior in front of those who were left), then dinner and check in. I was pretty drained and dead on my feet, so I don't recall the literal first activity. I wasn't in a good physical, emotional or mental place, so I wanted to wait until after I got some rest, he wasn't okay with that. Bad first step in married life. Whatever we did wasn't passion filled, at least for me.
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