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Lingerie shopping

Post by RedsPastor »

This post is gearing towards men, but ladies, feel free to chime in. You'll see why I say this..now.

For those of you men that shop for lingerie for your wives, how do you find websites without live models? One of the things I run into when shopping for lingerie is live models. Websites like honoring intimates and mentionables are solid, but don't always have what I'm looking for. DW is wonderful in wearing things that I desire to see on her; but many of these sites, including amazon have "live" models. Men, especially those that have a history of porn addiction, what do you do? Is it possible to go on these websites and see them as "simply" God's creatures, and not lust\committ adultery in your heart? If it is, please lead me down that path. Ladies, if you're DH does this successfully (shopping on sites with live models) how does he guard himself?
But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace toward me was not in vain. -- 1 Corinithians 15:10
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Re: Lingerie shopping

Post by footnassman »

My answer might only work for/apply to me, but...

I LOVE shopping for lingerie for my wife...and she likes that I do. Like your wife, she is open to wear just about anything I would like to see her in. I shop in stores and I shop online. I understand where you are concerned with "live" models.....most, if not all, sites that I see have women pictured in this lingerie...most obscure nipples...

I used to LOVE the JC Penney and Sears catalogs when I was a kid.....man, did those titillate me!!! I am not sure if its because I have aged...but, I dont have that same response, at all, to these pics I see on lingerie websites. I will tell you its because I always picture my wife in whatever is being worn....some things look great on her, others not so much....and I can pick the differences. So, I see my Mrs in them when I view them. I am not sure how long it has been since I gained arousal from something like that, but I would think decades....???? Now, when I put my wife into one of those outfits....that's a different story!!! Who knows, though....maybe I am just trying to fool myself.
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