Never gave it a worrying thought! The combination of being a young, horny husband as our infant baby slept, didn’t hold me/us back!SeekingChange wrote: ↑Sun Feb 07, 2021 8:00 am"Never gave it a thought", as in you would never dream of doing it? Or you didn't give it a second thought on there being an issue with it?
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We never did it. My wife was firmly against it.SeekingChange wrote: ↑Fri Feb 05, 2021 8:08 pm Do or did any of you co-sleep? If so, how did you make it work with your sex life?
Any tips to help others make it work?
This is not a thread for those to oppose this, if one desires to debate parenting/sleeping practices they are welcome to start another thread.
When the youngest was born, I turned sun room into nursery.
This placed baby close by but not exactly in same room.
The first year of baby's life, I was, in practice, a single daddy with a baby and an invalid adult.
I installed and worked many short cuts which made the job easy.
It all worked for the best.
MrsNerd wrote: ↑Fri Feb 05, 2021 10:31 pm I kept nursing babes close. It certainly put a damper on things as I didn’t want to wake them.
Once after weeks of illness and stress, disconnect, my DH was desperate to ML, but my babe was inconsolable, for whatever reason(probably teething), unless latched on nursing. Finally in the middle of the night we had gave up trying to get baby in it’s own space and DH had a quickie from behind while I nursed baby on my side. It wasn’t ideal but was important for my relationship and I obviously wasn’t aroused. Later I mentioned it in passing on an online parents forum I was in at the time and got horrible, horrible accusations and comments from people, being accused of being a sicko, pervert, etc. Needless to say I left that community and wondered if anyone else valued their spouse’s needs as much as I did mine, and if there was something wrong with me that it didn’t bother me to have been nursing. I feel it was needed with my young baby, and feel not having pursued arousal for me was the key. It was hard enough to pursue arousal with them in the same room much less latched on.
That said, it would’ve been nice to have had another room to steal away into for LM.
We have done this too. It was very nice of you to let DH connect . My wife also nursed baby and she insisted
we continue PIV from behind.